It's something men are going to do. I find it hard not to look at pretty women or attractive men. If your SO is obviously trying to make eye contact and woo her with his coyness, that's a problem. But looking is fine. Chances are the girl sees and is flattered but unnerved by the fact that he has the balls to do it in front of you (slimy).
Anyway, my SO will look. And what do I do? I drag him to see a movie with me with a nakey Michael Fassbender.
I didn't say the recipient should be upset. I'm saying sometimes I've observed them looking upset and annoyed/confused when the guy is with a girl. Sometimes they are flattered.I'm having trouble connecting these two thoughts:
Looking is fine but the recipient of the looks would/should be upset because it's slimy. If it's OK why would you think the recipient would be unnerved?
I didn't say the recipient should be upset. I'm saying sometimes I've observed them looking upset and annoyed/confused when the guy is with a girl. Sometimes they are flattered.
What I'm trying to say is that just because he is looking, doesn't mean anything is going to happen, and if he is looking too hard it may not go down well with everyone else because he is with a woman already.
Whaat. where did he get those cajonesi hate when guys do this. every guy i have dated except my current has been a looker. my most recent ex used to ask me if i was attracted to the girls he was looking at -____-
anyways, i am glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. I thought i was cool with it but its almost a relief now.
Whaat. where did he get those cajones
I'm having trouble connecting these two thoughts:
Looking is fine but the recipient of the looks would/should be upset because it's slimy. If it's OK why would you think the recipient would be unnerved?
<insert rant about the issues of "monogamy" and how unnatural it is...>
Thank you! I don't know his deal with the filipinas but he definitely had a thing for them. When we were younger and dating he told me that he would sleep with my Asian friend if he had to choose between all of them, out off all my friend he picked the one I never thought he'd pick. One time when we were separated he dated a non American Filipino and posted pics of them on fb and everything. I don't know why if he loves them so he doesn't just be with them. Now i'm mad all over again