Is he crazy or did he hit it & quit it???

Did he really delete his FB or did he just block HER?
Beyond that, I cant say it sounds like a hit and quit situation. I think he got freaked by your cousin's behavior.
 
I think all the other posters covered all the basics He might have very well been going through "something" but her constant calls and texts didn't help. The relationship was at the point where teaching and setting boundaries was crucial. They both did terribly by sleeping together so soon, and then your friend showed him a side of her (by cussing him out) that he probably didn't need to see (at least not yet).


Where's jerseygirl when you need her? :look:
 
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Ok...so...why is your cousin jumping through all these hoops to try and get answers to what's going on with this dude, when she already has the answer. He doesn't want her, and she knows it. The fact that she is waiting around for him, calling him from other people's phones and whatnot is what's crazy. Tell cuzz to get a grip on reality, have some dignity, and move on...

It's the sex. Im sure if she hasnt slept with him, she wouldnt care this much. Guess she feels used.


Lord knows though if iI were dude and gettting rude texts with cuss words and knowing that other people were being brought intro our ish, I wouldnt call her either
 
I have a question OP. I don't mean to sound alarmist ... but did your cousin and this guy get tested beforehand. For STDs? It was one of the first things I thought of when I read your post. I was just really surprised that it had only been a month, they are long distance etc and already having sex :nono:

I know lots of ladies on here may be doing the same. But how does she/ the ladies on here who are OK with this know for sure that you aren't going to get something?

I don't know. It's just something I thought of when I saw the OP and then I read the HIV thread in the 'Off Topic' section. Just thought I'd bring it up.
 
i agree, but i think she was just confused. Me nor anyone she has talked to understands the situation. the love thing threw us all off... but she has moved on from what i hear & see. just super curious

In what world does a man fall in love with a woman just after two dates? He was obviously lying.
 
I have a question OP. I don't mean to sound alarmist ... but did your cousin and this guy get tested beforehand. For STDs? It was one of the first things I thought of when I read your post. I was just really surprised that it had only been a month, they are long distance etc and already having sex :nono:

I know lots of ladies on here may be doing the same. But how does she/ the ladies on here who are OK with this know for sure that you aren't going to get something?

I don't know. It's just something I thought of when I saw the OP and then I read the HIV thread in the 'Off Topic' section. Just thought I'd bring it up.

For real! That dude's heartfelt words sound like an "I'm sorry I slept with you before I told you I have an STD" speech to me. Or something else equally as bad. That would explain why he took so long to respond. He probably dropped off the face of the earth after realizing your cousin is not emotionally stable.

Doesn't matter now because it seems your cuz has major issues anyway. That was crazy.
 
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