ChasingBliss
Well-Known Member
My Coworker and I were having a conversation that quickly made her defensive.
She told me that she and her SO were having a conversation about friends of the opposite sex...particularly male friends. He said that he didnt mind her having them, but he is not gonna lose sight of the fact that all men are predators by nature. He then said that even he was a predator...but stated that he didnt mean it in the sense that he preys on women while he's in a relationship (preying meaning going after someone he's interested in); he is just stating the nature of men. She told me that she said that she wanted to know more about what he meant by that ....and he told her that's the way life is...people will see and be attracted to the opposite sex. He may see a woman, he may look at her twice, he may even be attracted to her, but he wouldnt act on it because he respects his relationship.
I dunno, it just didnt sound right to me....so I told her...SHe didnt agree with me at first but got mad at me for introducing the notion. I mean I kind of felt like it meant that she should have something to worry about.
How would any of you take a conversation like that. According to her, overall he's a very good guy who adores her. He also tends to be extremely blunt and real... But was still looking sideways at that convo.
She told me that she and her SO were having a conversation about friends of the opposite sex...particularly male friends. He said that he didnt mind her having them, but he is not gonna lose sight of the fact that all men are predators by nature. He then said that even he was a predator...but stated that he didnt mean it in the sense that he preys on women while he's in a relationship (preying meaning going after someone he's interested in); he is just stating the nature of men. She told me that she said that she wanted to know more about what he meant by that ....and he told her that's the way life is...people will see and be attracted to the opposite sex. He may see a woman, he may look at her twice, he may even be attracted to her, but he wouldnt act on it because he respects his relationship.
I dunno, it just didnt sound right to me....so I told her...SHe didnt agree with me at first but got mad at me for introducing the notion. I mean I kind of felt like it meant that she should have something to worry about.
How would any of you take a conversation like that. According to her, overall he's a very good guy who adores her. He also tends to be extremely blunt and real... But was still looking sideways at that convo.