You can't at all be serious
erplexed because it's not that deep. Breathe!
First bolded....you answer blocked numbers? And if you said you weren't going to respond, why did you answer his text in the first place?
Also....from the convo it is obvious you didn't want to talk to him. If you find yourself having a convo you don't wanna be a part of, make an excuse to get off the phone. It's alright. LOL
Second bolded...do not change your friggin number or change schools. LOL! You don't have to be creeped out. Well...after the "sets" question, IDK
but if you see him, just tell him you're too busy to hang out. Tell him you have a big test coming up, or hell....even say that you lied about not having a BF. It's not too late to change your story.
Even though you said "I'm serious," I really hope you ARE NOT SERIOUS about calling the po-po on this child if he tries to say hi to you. Don't give him a criminal record because YOU gave him your number and can't deal with him trying to speak. Figure out the real reason why you gave him your number and LET HIM KNOW!! Were you just being nice? Were you bored? Do you want a male friend but not a BF? Or *gasp* do you want a BF but you're too scared? Whatever it is.....he's a guy, he can take it. (You could always walk the other way or act crazy, too. LOL)
* Ok I know this post is long, but please read the whole thing please*
Ok I know you can't read sarcasm through the Internet a lot of time so it's OK. But no I'm not going through the trouble of changing my number over one friggan guy.
All that police/ change of number, stuff was about was the stalker vibe I was getting from him, which in all fairness I didn't mention in my post. But he came across very demanding, aggressive, stalker-y on the phone. Like I owed him something.
No I'm not serious about calling the police. I was serious about being creeped out, and why shouldn't I be? And if I did call them what would the police do? Yeah you said it yourself it's not that deep. And maybe you didn't pay enough attention to my post because I didn't say I wasn't going to respond - which is why I did, in fact, respond. If you couldn't tell from my post I have an issue with guys not liking to be in the "friend zone - which was part of my reason for asking this question - to clarify that giving someone your number does not automatically obligate you to them. Some guys can't take rejection - a lot of he guys Ive turned down lol. It seems like thy could just be like whatever, but they get mad and want to call women out of their names (yes I know this is only a certain type of guy). How could that ever be considered deep? Idk I get the "you're silly/it's your fault" vibe from your questions which is exactly why I was asking this question. Because some guys like to act crazy when you don't like them then say it's your fault when thy cuss you out cuz their ego them butt hurt. Then someone likes to chime in an say you're mean to guys. And this situation is an exception to that sentiment, because now i don't even want to be friends with the guy b/c I have a problem with his attitude I just may be mean for that and I don't care.
No like I said in my post I do not want a BF and if I did I wouldn't be "too afraid".
I can and will ignore him, and now I know I shouldn't give guys I don't like my number because it turns into an issue and then there's people who, because I'm not desperate for a guy and am not interested in a certain one, want to act like I'm crazy, stuck up, trippin', whatever.
Idk if you were asking if my whole post was serious or what.
Yes my post was serious except for calling the police. I wouldn't do that unless I were threatened.
I only said that because he seemed pushy and that's a serious pet peeve of mine. And if he would have said something crazy, in my head I imagine myself going off, but I'm not stupid, I know you can't just start talking crazy to negros and not see that there's potential to get hurt. Never mind to that though, like I said I am not stupid- I can and will ignore him.
Like I said this guy isn't gonna get a police record he doesn't already have just for talking to me. Now if he tried anything yeah he sure as hell would.
Oh and I do not accept blocked numbers now, thanks. Naturally I want to know who's calling my phone - blocked number or not. I mean who calls from one anyway?
ETA: OK I realize I probably overreacted; call me sheltered, but it's not normal for me to have people to ask what "coast" I'm from matter-of-fact like. He said it like he was asking where I grew up, so I know I sounded silly cause I just said "name of city I'm from, but my parents are from". But he seemed like it was a surprise that I wasn't involved with gang activity. I'm thinking: Hmm is that the kind of stuff you normally ask ladies you're interested in?". Now that I think of it, it probably is, I mean a gang member isn't about to go dating someone from another gang, but do I
look like I'm in a gang?
Really? I know I don't. I was almost offended. At that, and the fact that he got mad that I didn't seem interested in talking on the phone (though I was being polite), yet he's the one calling from a blocked number, not clarifying who he is, and talking so I could hardly understand him - not to mention all the friggan background noise. I probably would have been more interested in talking had it not been so frustrating trying to even hear him, well yeah before the gang question. I must be stuck up cause there's no way in hell I'm about to associate myself like that.
Sent from my iPhone. Please excuse the typos.