i'm pretty conservative and even i thought in the bible it stated that you could get a divorce on the stance of adultery. if you want I can find it. I remember even reading one verse about divorcing if there was abuse.
Before i get married I am already warning my husband that if he does something stupid we will just remained separated..forever.
I wasn't sure of what you meant..but I get it,now.
I agree. I mentioned it earlier that there are verses that speak to an opposite view..but Irefuse to post them. I did not want to get involved in egotistical bible weaponry..God is none of that.
For myself, I remain sensitive to the how and why the thread began...it did not seem about ...debate...but one person in need of support
There are in fact ..more and other threads that relate directly to the topic ..from a purely theoretical stance which imho opinion would be the time place to debate..and offer vidoes and the like...
without compromising the integrity of an appeal made in all innocence and trust.
and indirectly answering an earlier post .....this stills help the unsaved member... the unconditional Christ's love
I promise the people on here can be so mean, rude, and disrespectful. It sickens me.
It is disheartening..and disillusioning....
why is
forcing the telling on one biblical view of divorce so that the members can be saved..since that was the given reason more or less..
maybe not even why......but
how is that more important than demonstrating love and support ..which to me is of Christ..
who could be moved by such..and I hate to use this word..but I think it applies
....cruelty..
I'm referring not to one or two..but a few who chose to answer in a spirit of harshness..and thank God it was only a few...and that is their choice,of course, but ironically ..I don't experience Christ love in any of that and GOD IS LOVE
Frankly if I were unsaved..witnessing those very tactics as "help"to someone who made such a vulnerable appeal ..who used the word distraught ..would completely alienate me to Christianity as unsaved... if that is what Christianity is representative of.
as a Christian... I am alienated...from that view and that kind of response.
I am very glad to hear others made it known they were concerned ..just like you are ....
I did not mean to respond anymore in this thread...
But I wanted to respond to you becaue I thought it was brave of you to speak up..
you can get sick.
literally and that is why I am learning to guard the heart...
anyways....again..for your couarage
thank you