I had almost the EXACT same thing happen to me.
I went into a sallys once looking for a sulfate free shampoo and when I find my product and come up to the counter this white hispanic clerk says to me: "You know, you should really try this product its good for ethnic hair like yours and mine"... I looked at her 2a silky hair and was like "You use this product?" And shes like "Well no, but we are ETHNIC (and she said it just like that) so we should be using these products.." (DH was with me and when she said this he was like
"oh no here it comes...")I was like.... "So you want me to use something that you wont even put in your own hair?" I pick up the jar turn it over and point to the second ingredient... "Mineral oil is probably the worst thing someone could possibly put in their hair, I only use good products on my hair... but thanks for the recommendation anyway... let me know how this works on your hair!"
She just looked at me like WTF? I just went on about my business and paid and walked out of the store. I couldn't believe that mess.
Also, there was this other time I went in there and the woman handed me a lye relaxer after I asked her for something that would help me soften my hair and would lay the frizz down. She goes "Oh yeah, Have you ever tried using THIS? They use this to stop that frizzy hair". I was like... "who is THEY? And I wanted a CONDITIONER or a leave in not a chemical treatment!!!"
I was so floored!
needless to say I dont ask questions in Sallys anymore... I really pity the girls who do go in there looking for some help though and leave with relaxers and mineral oil. :/