BostonMaria
Well-Known Member
Just an inquiry...
To the women who rock straightened hair, what would you say to your own daughter if she expressed disdain for her natural hair and a strong preference for a little white girls straight hair? What would you say to her?
I'm sure most women would tell their daughter that her har is just as good/pretty but what would you say if she asked about your own perpetually straightened hair? Just curious.
At the age of 7 my DD said to me "I wish my hair was like Amy's" her best friend Amy had beautiful, straight tailbone blonde hair. My kid actually cried. This is before I started my hair journey. My DD has beautiful tailbone length curly hair and I was actually shocked that she even thought this. I told her that her hair is beautiful and she could wear it curly or straight unlike her friend. She didn't wanna hear it.
A few weeks later as I was picking up DD from school, her friend Amy came up behind her, touched her hair and said "I love your hair, I wish my hair was curly" and DD was so happy LOL she never ever brought up the subject again. I was like thanks God! I now make it a point to tell her how beautiful her hair and complexion is. I BC'd a year later.
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