mscurly
Well-Known Member
I see where you are coming from but the bible says if you cannot wait any longer to marry. I'm not feeling like growing old by myself and never having the love of a mate. No matter how great my relationship with God is I still have blood running through my veins and feelings. That theory of accepting it is a tough pill to swallow. How can you not be bitter or sad. Idk
I understand how you feel Kinkyhairlady but you have to learn how to let go and surrender your desire for marriage to God. As I'm typing this I am saying this to myself also. I've been single and celibate for 2 years and now lately my desire for companionship is outweighing everything else. Some days I feel like I'm going crazy because I desire a husband and family that badly. But in those moments I pray and speak open and honestly to God about how I am feeling and instantly I feel peace. God desires a intimate relationship with us. I encourage you to pray when you have those feelings.
Believe me I am where you are. I've prayed, fasted, I read my bible EVERY single day. I've put myself out there, tried online dating, go to church, bible study, events, outings and I am still single. It gets discouraging when you feel like you have tried everything and still no results.
You don't want your desire to turn into idolatry and desperation. Trust me I've been there. Take heart in knowing that you are not the only woman out there who feels like this. You are not alone. I'm dealing with these same struggles daily. All I can do is trust God because he's always been there for me before so my desires for a relationship are no different. The enemy wants us to grow weary in waiting and begin to doubt. Marriage is ministry and a blessing from the Lord so of course the devil doesn't want that to take place. Start praying now about your feelings, pray about your husband (wherever he is), pray about your marriage. Start thanking God in advance.
As I'm saying all of this to you I'm also saying this to myself.
This is for you and other woman who is feeling like this right now
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