I went out with this guy on Saturday, we had an early dinner.
Anyhoo he was filling me in about his past relationships and I was listening very closely. It seems like he didn't make any strong ties. He basically said that he usually heard from women when they wanted money. He said that he had no problems giving the $$, but he was basically allowed to run free and do as he pleased. I ask did they all go for this and he said they ok with it and he never hid anything; but it was really unfulfilling. He said that he was really amazed, he stated that his parents were really not happy.
Now he didn't tell me straight out where he worked, but he did tell me what he did and while it is a labor job, it is a 6 figure job, no doubt and not barely a 6 figure job, but a strong 6 figure job.
I told him straight out that that was something that I was not interested in. He said none of them protested. I was floored. Now this is all from his POV, but he was so casual in telling me this.
He states he wants to get to know me, but I am like ehhh, I am not sure. I do know that I would not go for the okey doke.
I just wanted to field this for some opinions and if you have ever know this type of situation. I will be honest, I have heard about it, but never knew it from a man's POV. I usually hear it from the women's POV and it was the "A man is better than no man" theory which I do not subscribe to at all.
**1/31/13 Another UPDATE on Page 2
Anyhoo he was filling me in about his past relationships and I was listening very closely. It seems like he didn't make any strong ties. He basically said that he usually heard from women when they wanted money. He said that he had no problems giving the $$, but he was basically allowed to run free and do as he pleased. I ask did they all go for this and he said they ok with it and he never hid anything; but it was really unfulfilling. He said that he was really amazed, he stated that his parents were really not happy.
Now he didn't tell me straight out where he worked, but he did tell me what he did and while it is a labor job, it is a 6 figure job, no doubt and not barely a 6 figure job, but a strong 6 figure job.
I told him straight out that that was something that I was not interested in. He said none of them protested. I was floored. Now this is all from his POV, but he was so casual in telling me this.
He states he wants to get to know me, but I am like ehhh, I am not sure. I do know that I would not go for the okey doke.
I just wanted to field this for some opinions and if you have ever know this type of situation. I will be honest, I have heard about it, but never knew it from a man's POV. I usually hear it from the women's POV and it was the "A man is better than no man" theory which I do not subscribe to at all.
**1/31/13 Another UPDATE on Page 2
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