Nayna
Unbothered
Lol, so here's the story. I have many close female friends but only one close male friend. I love him dearly but his dating choices... eh. One of my closest female friends (so close that we decided to move in together) has odd choices in dating as well (I'm questionable at times too but we aren't talking about me right now, lol). Like she has the tendency to date the "unavailable" guy. He's either too young so he's not ready. Or he has 2 girlfriends (true story 
) and isn't worth her time imo.
Sooo, I celebrated my bday the other night with a get together and I noticed that these two homies would look so good together. She keeps telling me she wants a man and she's about ready to join eharmony and match.com. He keeps saying the females he meets are seriously only attracted to the uniform and it ends up being fickle. But they have met before of course and the vibes are there.
However, I don't want to get caught in between any issues that may arise, lol. I know these two are adults but that doesn't change the fact that I'm the link with them. She told me I could give him her # which I did. I gave him a stern warning that if he's going to be full of ish then he better KIM. I told her that as always I'm here for her but to please try and not have me alll up in their ish.
I don't know though, am I playing with fire? Physically they are each others types when they describe what they look for. Mentally it's the same thing. He has a good job, his own crib, his own car. She has 2 degrees working on a third, we have a crib together and I can sooo see this working out! I's just I love them both dearly and I wouldn't want to get caught up with f*ckery but at the same time I'd love to see them both happy with each other. I'm torn, lol. What say you guys?
) and isn't worth her time imo.Sooo, I celebrated my bday the other night with a get together and I noticed that these two homies would look so good together. She keeps telling me she wants a man and she's about ready to join eharmony and match.com. He keeps saying the females he meets are seriously only attracted to the uniform and it ends up being fickle. But they have met before of course and the vibes are there.
However, I don't want to get caught in between any issues that may arise, lol. I know these two are adults but that doesn't change the fact that I'm the link with them. She told me I could give him her # which I did. I gave him a stern warning that if he's going to be full of ish then he better KIM. I told her that as always I'm here for her but to please try and not have me alll up in their ish.
I don't know though, am I playing with fire? Physically they are each others types when they describe what they look for. Mentally it's the same thing. He has a good job, his own crib, his own car. She has 2 degrees working on a third, we have a crib together and I can sooo see this working out! I's just I love them both dearly and I wouldn't want to get caught up with f*ckery but at the same time I'd love to see them both happy with each other. I'm torn, lol. What say you guys?
I like that you gave them a disclaimer so even if they thought that would fly, now they know that is unacceptable with you.
