bluediamond0829
Well-Known Member
Okay so its this dude ive been dealing with for like over 3 years or so. When we are getting along everything is fine. But then its times like this and its always funny that before I can get pisted and mad at him he gets pisted at me over something to me thats very stupid and just really immature.
Like for example here is the most recent incident. Sunday I woke up with a crazy headache and just feeling really ill. So I take some aleve and went back to sleep and didn't wake back up until after 12. By then he sent me the usual text of:
Him: Good Morning with a smiley kiss face.
Me: Hi good afternoon.
Him: Wow...well hi to u too
Me: Sorry Im not feeling too well...woke up feeling sick and then went back to sleep. I just woke up.
Him: No problem. I hope u feel better.
Me: Yep
So by the response I got from him of him just saying i hope u feel better. I was a little put off and was like WOW because the Sunday before when he wasn't feeling great and in a funk I drove all the way to his house which took about 45 minutes just to see how he was doing, watched football with him and stayed there until about 4 or 5ish. The least I was expecting was him to ask me if i needed anything or act like he cared more then just saying I hope u feel better and thats it.
Then today when I'm texting him to say Good Morning(even though I'm still sick and having to go out in the wet weather to work) and then when i didnt get a response or here from him i texted him again and even called him to see if he had went down to see his mother(and just was thinking the reception was bad in the area) NOPE he's pisted at me because he says i was so dry with him on my responses. I was like dude I was sick are you serious. Then he's like im coming at him sideways. I told him he is reading into things that are not there..
This isnt the only time that something along these lines has happened and its always my fault or him expecting me to apologize. I just refuse to apologize...I'm also just like wow this is the day before XMAS and this is what you are doing to me coming to me with such pettyness.
Am I looking at this wrong?
I'm really just trying to go about my business and leave him alone because he has so many issues with family and i think there are times that he takes out his issues on me on simple things like what took place the other day.
Like for example here is the most recent incident. Sunday I woke up with a crazy headache and just feeling really ill. So I take some aleve and went back to sleep and didn't wake back up until after 12. By then he sent me the usual text of:
Him: Good Morning with a smiley kiss face.
Me: Hi good afternoon.
Him: Wow...well hi to u too
Me: Sorry Im not feeling too well...woke up feeling sick and then went back to sleep. I just woke up.
Him: No problem. I hope u feel better.
Me: Yep
So by the response I got from him of him just saying i hope u feel better. I was a little put off and was like WOW because the Sunday before when he wasn't feeling great and in a funk I drove all the way to his house which took about 45 minutes just to see how he was doing, watched football with him and stayed there until about 4 or 5ish. The least I was expecting was him to ask me if i needed anything or act like he cared more then just saying I hope u feel better and thats it.
Then today when I'm texting him to say Good Morning(even though I'm still sick and having to go out in the wet weather to work) and then when i didnt get a response or here from him i texted him again and even called him to see if he had went down to see his mother(and just was thinking the reception was bad in the area) NOPE he's pisted at me because he says i was so dry with him on my responses. I was like dude I was sick are you serious. Then he's like im coming at him sideways. I told him he is reading into things that are not there..
This isnt the only time that something along these lines has happened and its always my fault or him expecting me to apologize. I just refuse to apologize...I'm also just like wow this is the day before XMAS and this is what you are doing to me coming to me with such pettyness.
Am I looking at this wrong?
I'm really just trying to go about my business and leave him alone because he has so many issues with family and i think there are times that he takes out his issues on me on simple things like what took place the other day.
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