pazyamor
New Member
I'm not sure if this is even the right place to put this, but I have to spill because I'm about to burst...so here it is:
I am BEST FRIENDS with my older sister; I mean we are tighter than anything in the world: when she got in trouble when we were kids, I would insist I got a whooping too, she is the only person who I will fight for, and once my ex asked if confronted to save a life with a choice between my mother and my sister who would I choose...I said my sister. We are that close.
Well, almost two years ago, my sister married this loser who she loves to death. And I HATE HIM; he's stupid, selfish, and inconsiderate. He used to be in the Air Force and my sister had a good job but decided to start cosmetology school, she was laid off (long story), and he had to pay all the bills. Well this Ni**a got out of the military because he couldn't "spend his money the way he wanted to" and "was tired of paying all the bills". This left my sister homeless and with no income.
They moved in with my Granny and just a few days ago, my sister's car was repossessed! his car, by the way, is paid up to date, and he basically lied about how many months he had not paid her car note. Whenever he gets any money, he tries to keep her on a tight leash and spends hundreds on bulls**t! I can't even stand to look at them together.
This is making it hard to deal with my sister; I've already had to tell her I don't want to hear her complain about him anymore and we can usually talk about anything. And I'm enrolling in a teach in Japan program for 2010 and of course she is going to want to visit, but I made up some excuse why she wouldn't be able to because I really don't want to see him.
I don't know what to do, she keeps asking me if we can get an apartment together and I keep saying it's because they're married an I'm single...but it's really because of him, I don't want this to ruin our relationship, but it slowly is, what am I going to do?
I am BEST FRIENDS with my older sister; I mean we are tighter than anything in the world: when she got in trouble when we were kids, I would insist I got a whooping too, she is the only person who I will fight for, and once my ex asked if confronted to save a life with a choice between my mother and my sister who would I choose...I said my sister. We are that close.
Well, almost two years ago, my sister married this loser who she loves to death. And I HATE HIM; he's stupid, selfish, and inconsiderate. He used to be in the Air Force and my sister had a good job but decided to start cosmetology school, she was laid off (long story), and he had to pay all the bills. Well this Ni**a got out of the military because he couldn't "spend his money the way he wanted to" and "was tired of paying all the bills". This left my sister homeless and with no income.
They moved in with my Granny and just a few days ago, my sister's car was repossessed! his car, by the way, is paid up to date, and he basically lied about how many months he had not paid her car note. Whenever he gets any money, he tries to keep her on a tight leash and spends hundreds on bulls**t! I can't even stand to look at them together.
This is making it hard to deal with my sister; I've already had to tell her I don't want to hear her complain about him anymore and we can usually talk about anything. And I'm enrolling in a teach in Japan program for 2010 and of course she is going to want to visit, but I made up some excuse why she wouldn't be able to because I really don't want to see him.
I don't know what to do, she keeps asking me if we can get an apartment together and I keep saying it's because they're married an I'm single...but it's really because of him, I don't want this to ruin our relationship, but it slowly is, what am I going to do?