Thank you for all the beautiful compliments. I really appreciate them, and it really keeps me going when i feel like giving up. My hair regime is kind of crazy. When i was at home i conditioner washed every two days and air dried in a bun over the summer because i worked out I do the same thing now except i rinse in the my sink which is difficult, but if if i wash my hair in the shower my hair will snap off!! The water is that bad. I try to do light rinses, and concentrate rinsing my ends with EVOO and Pantene Smooth and Sleek or R&N. I am switching between deep conditioners of LUST or Paul Mitchell, but i only use those every now and then if my hair feels limp. Sometimes the protein deep conditioners make my hair hard and dry even after moisturizing with a moisturing conditioner. Right now i just airdry in bun, and rinse with conditioner only 2 twice a week. I clarify with baking soda around every month. I shampoo with Creme of Nature dry/damage formula once a week. I do not use a lot. I lather once, and use i dime size. Shampoo dries the hell out of hair, so i can use a little. I have had a lot breakage, but i only cut my hair once every two to three months. Sometimes it is little strands other times little balls. i worry sometimes my hair is not growing because of breakage. I always think my ends are bad, but they turn out pretty nice when i blow dry my hair. Unfortunaly i do not use any leave ins. They actually dry out my hair eventually. I do not put anything on my scalp because it will start itching. I did even know my hair had shine until i stop going to the beauticians. My scalp is mildly oily, but ends are unbelieveably dry. This why i think my hair grows fast but can break fast also. I think my hair grows faster than it breaks at times. Oh yeah, i forgot i sleep in satin scarf every night wrapped up in a bun. It is really the only protective style i can wear without my hair completely drying off. What you ladies saw were wet pics. You will see the dryness in my new dry pics when i post them. It should be very soon. I am also going to try to post some blow out pics and better shrinkage pics also. I took the pictures myself so they did not turn out well. I will try to get better. Thank you again for all the compliments. This board has truly inspired me.