ZLUVSNEWZEE
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ZLUVSNEWZEE said:Yes I was clear about how I felt..if he's just not into me them why keep going there with me...that's what I don't understand. And if it was just about sex wouldn't he try to see me?
So this guy that I basically grew up with and had the biggest crush on recently "found" me on Facebook. This guy disappeared about 10 years ago and i've always asked friends about him and if they've spoken to him. So anyway after getting in touch through fb and then exchanging numbers I was so happy to be Back in contact with him after so long just as friends cause we used to really kick it. We've hooked up once before and that was a drunken night that didn't really lead to anything and he stopped hanging out shortly after that.
So after texting here and there out of the blue he texts me telling me that he just Had to get something off his chest. He prefaced this big confession by saying he needed to know if I was single first cause he didn't want to mess up any special union I may have. Then he says he had a crush on me the entire time that he and I hung out and that the night we hooked up he felt I wasn't receptive to him and thought he'd messed up his chances with me. He goes on to say that he still likes me.
Fast forward to now and he's only called me once since then and he only texts maybe twice a week with just a hello. He also hasn't suggested hanging out, going on a date nothing. The other day we had a long textversation about how what if we were brought back together for some magical reason. And that we both are interested in seeing if our friendship can be more than just friendship.
so today he texts as soon as he wakes up and asks what i'm doing today, he basically says he's not doing much so I decide to forget waiting on him to suggest us meeting up and I text him if you think about me later call me so we can hang out...he has not called.
Not even to say he can't hang out. Shouldn't he at least call just to be kind, even if he had plans or can't hang out. Oh btw his response to that text was ok and that's it. Am I missing something? Can you ladies help?
Aren't you pregnant OP? Maybe he's thinking that you are not emotionally available for a relationship.
Zuleika said:OP, you have too much on your plate to be worrying about whether or not a man is into you and to be hooking up with these men all willy nilly.
This is the time to focus on your toddler and the baby on the way. If a man is into you, you won't even have to ask people what they think he's doing. You'll know, because he'll show you.
I think after this i'm not going to bother responding to his texts, something definitely is off with this whole situation
Aren't you pregnant OP? Maybe he's thinking that you are not emotionally available for a relationship.
OP, you have too much on your plate to be worrying about whether or not a man is into you and to be hooking up with these men all willy nilly.
This is the time to focus on your toddler and the baby on the way. If a man is into you, you won't even have to ask people what they think he's doing. You'll know, because he'll show you.
You have a baby on the way OP? Chile, sit down, focus and conserve your energy.
arent you pregnant right now? imo this sooooo shouldnt be on your radar at all...
Laws have mercy she wants to date while pregnant with another man's baby?
Thank you, yes I am Pregnant and Thank you all for providing your opinions on how you feel about that...forgot where I was posting. I so want to be offended but I won't be but don't worry ladies my mind is focused. This is something that i've been thinking about and wanted to get an outside view...that doesn't mean that my energy or focus is in the wrong place. I had no plans to casually hook up or whatever, he's am old friend that momentarily made me feel special and I thought what if this man is meant to be in my life.
i'm not out looking to date while pregnant, this guy just came along and made me think a little.
Yeah. Focus on that baby. What if you guys do hook up and leaves and breaks your heart. You and that baby don't need any stress at this time.