tryn2growmyhair said:Thanks, Carlie. I read that topic and still had a few questions, specifically about which one I should use for my hair.
I look forward to hearing your responses to my questions, I greatly appreciate your sharing and your advice.
tryn2growmyhair said:2) Could you give airdrying tips? Whenever I airdry my hair, whether it be in a bun, ponytail, etc, my hair dries crunchy. My hair HATES s-curl but it does well with Bumble and Bumble Leave-in, UBH moisturizer and oils, mixed in. I think that the only way my hair would be able to dry moisturized would be with cornrows or with a rollerset. Doing ponytail rollersets doesnt always help. However, I worry that the cornrows and rollersets would be too much manipulation, because I wash my hair every other day or at least every three days because I work out. What advice do you have for me?
The reason why hair drys so smooth when rollerset is because it is shaped and forced to stay that way when rolled with the roller. The hair has no choice but to dry in the way that it was shaped/stretched. I always airdry my hair when I wash it and my hair never dries crunchy. The way I do my buns is like they way one would make a bantu knot. After applying whatever products to my wet hair, I'll join the hair together at my nape as if I was going to put it into a ponytail; while holding the hair w. a firm grip, I'll then begin to twist the entire length of the hair and wrap the hair around itself, tucking the ends in underneath the rest of the hair. I'll then secure the bantu knot style bun w. a scrunchie or headband. Also, I tie my satin scarf firmly around my hair. My hair has no choice but to dry straight with the ends wavy.
3) Finally, I think that I read in your journal that you are trying to workout a lot more. Are you still going to keep washing your hair once a week or do you think that you will increase the frequency? Do you have tips for those of us who would like to work out but are also trying to grow our hair?
As miraculously as it may sound, even after working out up to three times a week, my hair doesn't smell. My hair usually smells clean for the whole week. Therefore, I don't find that I need to wash my hair more than once a week. This may sound weird but when I workout, I tie my satin scarf over my hair so that if my roots sweat a little, it won't puff out (when I have new growth)....I also do this to keep my hair protected from the wind...I know it's weird. After the workout, I'll remove the scarf to allow whatever moisture that's there to evaporate. After I workout my hair isn't dripping with sweat....it may be a little damp at the root, but that's all....nothing major....that's probably why my hair stays smelling fresh the whole week. Also, I don't use a lot of product on my scalp. I'm sure that has a lot to do with it as well.
4) When you say no heat, does this mean that you don't use heat to condition your hair (i.e. sit under the dryer/heating cap with conditione?) or does this mean that you airdry?
I've sat under the dryer w. conditioner before. I don't have a problem with that. I haven't done it in a while though....except the other day at the salon. I always airdry my hair in the type of bun I've previously described. I don't use blowdryers, curling irons, etc. I've used a flatiron once in the past year and I don't see myself doing that again anytime soon. Really, the only time my hair is done w. heat is when I go to the salon for a touch-up, and my hair is rollerset.
Thanks for sharing your journal and thanks in advance for your response to my question. You are one of my hair inspirations!
Thank you for waiting so patiently for my response. I hope I've answered your questions though! I'm glad that you were inspired. Thank you and Happy Hair Growing! :Rose:
Carlie said:Yeah, it's both .....half wig, half weave...
Indian hair oil? I've been using Amla Oil and recently Vatika Oil. Is that what you're talking about?
The longest I remember my hair ever being was almost BSL....right before I had to have it cut to shoulder length due to damage from heat and probably stress as well.
Carlie! Carlie! Thanks so much for your tips. You are so helpful! And yes, you are very inspiring. Your hair has improved so much, it is amazing. Thanks very much for the hairdrying tips. I will try to airdry with your bun method and I will see what happens. What are your favorite products for airdrying? Also, if I had to choose between one oil which would you recommend, the Amla or the Dabur Vatika? Thanks again.Carlie said:Ok, I'm feeling much better now. Now to answer the rest of your questions...my responses are in red.
senimoni said:Yes thats what I was referring to ....could you elaborate on it...ie its similar to coconut/evoo or castor oil, does it make your hair stronger etc?
tryn2growmyhair said:Carlie! Carlie! Thanks so much for your tips. You are so helpful! And yes, you are very inspiring. Your hair has improved so much, it is amazing. Thanks very much for the hairdrying tips. I will try to airdry with your bun method and I will see what happens. What are your favorite products for airdrying? Also, if I had to choose between one oil which would you recommend, the Amla or the Dabur Vatika? Thanks again.
Thanks again for all of the tips. Do you know where I could get this in New York City?Carlie said:Favorite products for airdrying? Ummm....SCurl (of course ; I ALWAYS use Salerm 21 after I wash my hair....for the past few mths if not more, I've been mixing it w. NTM Silk Touch Leave-In....and oils. That's really all I need. Sometimes I'll just use SCurl and no oils. Regardless, my hair dries fluffy, lots of body and soft. I usually oil my scalp the day after washing....there are exceptions though.
Choosing between Amla or Vatika? No can do. I've recently added the Vatika and I'm happy w. both as I use them both differently. I use the Amla for my prepoo and I use the Vatika as a regular hair oil on my scalp mixed w. other oils.
tryn2growmyhair said:Thanks again for all of the tips. Do you know where I could get this in New York City?
TigerLily said:WOW CARLIE!!!!!!!!! You hair growth is simply AMAZING!!! Your hair is gorgeous!!!!
Definitely FOTM!!!!
Carlie! You are so sweet. Thanks again for your help! I love products that are cheap and good. I will be trying the Amla oil. The Vatika scares me a lil', because it has henna and lemon in it. I dont know if my fragile tresses can take that.Carlie said:You're very welcome! You can buy them from any Indian Grocery Store. ...much cheaper than ordering.... I think it was about 3 dollars and change. Here's a cool link if you need help finding one in your area: Indian Grocery Stores in NY I know NYC is full of them though...you shouldn't have a hard time finding one.
Nay said:Carlie, your hair looks BEAUTIFUL! The shine, the softness, the healthy glow! Go on with yo bad self!
And here's to you for going a whole year
That shows a lot of determination and self-control.
Carlie said:Here links to the manufacturer's site:
Dabur Vatika Hair Oil
Dabur Amla Hair Oil
Yes, it is supposed to make your hair stronger, among other things.
tryn2growmyhair said:Carlie! You are so sweet. Thanks again for your help! I love products that are cheap and good. I will be trying the Amla oil. The Vatika scares me a lil', because it has henna and lemon in it. I dont know if my fragile tresses can take that.
You're welcome.Carlie said:Thanks ladies!!!
Tryn2growmyhair, thanks for posting the additional info about Amla!
You know, others who are better at hairgrowing can give you their view. I have read in several books that it is a dye that can be difficult to get out of the hair and I have heard that lemon is drying for the hair. But clearly Dabur Vatika has worked well for Carlie and, I think, Boadecia, so maybe those things dont apply in this case. My hair is so fragile and thin and weak that even the mildest things can make it take a turn for the worse, so I might just stick to the amla. Maybe others can tell us more about this, I am definitely a tyro on this board and maybe one of the more experience maestros can tell us more about this.senimoni said:Whats wrong with henna?
Carlie said:Ok, let me stop acting silly!
I made it through a whole year of healthy hair care!!! No direct heat...except for once when I backslid and flatironed my hair. I don't think my hair responds well to flatirons.
I touched up yesterday after 13 wks. Anyway, if anyone is interested, you can visit my site by clicking on the photo in my signature. And....for a short time only, I'm posting a TEMPORARY PUBLIC PW to view my journal.
The TEMPORY PUBLIC PW is: temporary
ETA: This PW is No Longer Valid ---- I appreciate all of the compliments!
Most of my touch-up pics are in my journal. Also, you will find a link to my "Hair Progress Shots" where I have my 1 year progress pics. I started growing my hair in February 2004 but my 1 yr progress pics start from March 2004.
Many thanks to everyone here who supported me in my hair journey.
Will I be able to go another year? Hmmm.....I guess only time will tell...