larry3344
Well-Known Member
I was getting my hair done and as I was moisturizing and combing it, i realized my texture is not just 4b. I have just noticed that my kitchen is somewhere between (its a huge patch too) 3c and 4a . The front is I believe 4a it turns into a bunch of pen springs and the sides have random coils but since it is still a little short it lacks more defenition and the rest is 4b. Now my problem my coils harden after a while so I figured I would share it with my mom who'v taken care of my hair my entire life. As soon as I told her her, she asked me if I had a texturizer, I said no and followed by asking what can I do to alleviate the hardness of my coils.
Unfortunately I made the mistake of telling her about trying the baking soda treatment, (it helped a lot my hair is softer now) and she went on tirade to stop following this site that people here have "different" hair than we do.
Now I dearly love my mother but the things that she said utterly disappointed me. My mom herself is a 3c/4a/4b her hair tends to be softer. She always cuts its into a twa sometimes even as close as a fade he says the only way she can soften her hair by relaxing. Which is untrue her hair is very soft already she just doesn't like to deal with it.
I don't know why but I am utterly disappointed want my hair to grow fast so she can see for herself that it isn't true.
P.S: Right now my biggest struggle in retaining length is handling with dryness, does anyone have a moisture regimen??
Unfortunately I made the mistake of telling her about trying the baking soda treatment, (it helped a lot my hair is softer now) and she went on tirade to stop following this site that people here have "different" hair than we do.
Now I dearly love my mother but the things that she said utterly disappointed me. My mom herself is a 3c/4a/4b her hair tends to be softer. She always cuts its into a twa sometimes even as close as a fade he says the only way she can soften her hair by relaxing. Which is untrue her hair is very soft already she just doesn't like to deal with it.
I don't know why but I am utterly disappointed want my hair to grow fast so she can see for herself that it isn't true.
P.S: Right now my biggest struggle in retaining length is handling with dryness, does anyone have a moisture regimen??