cookiemonster287
Well-Known Member
OK so we're getting married this summer and I've been really trying hard since October to lose some weight.
My fiancé recently had something happen to his back and went through physical therapy for a few months so he couldn't exercise....
He's better now, but not quite enough to exercise like he used to.
I know he can't exercise that much, but he still eats bad all the time.
I'm not a very blunt person, and he's kind of sensitive about how much weight hes gained over the past 2 1/2 years so its hard for me to tell him to slow down.
Am I selfish for wanting him to lose some for the wedding though?
I'm still attracted to him and he didn't gain so much thats its risking his health, but its noticeable....erplexed.... I just don't know how to say it.
My fiancé recently had something happen to his back and went through physical therapy for a few months so he couldn't exercise....
He's better now, but not quite enough to exercise like he used to.
I know he can't exercise that much, but he still eats bad all the time.
I'm not a very blunt person, and he's kind of sensitive about how much weight hes gained over the past 2 1/2 years so its hard for me to tell him to slow down.
Am I selfish for wanting him to lose some for the wedding though?
I'm still attracted to him and he didn't gain so much thats its risking his health, but its noticeable....erplexed.... I just don't know how to say it.