3 weeks or 3 months, unless it's his birthday why would she initiate a date? If a man is into a woman she won't even have the chance to initiate a date because he's already done it.
This doesn't mean a man has to still plan every detail of the dates, but the actual "we should see each other on Friday/Saturday/Tuesday/whenever" should still come from him.
So 6 months later, you should still be sitting back waiting for him to initiate? I don't agree with that at all.
If he's still in the picture after all that time, wouldn't that be indicative that he's into you enough that you can pick up the phone and be like "hey, let's do x, y and z"?
^^^ Ok, but if you're using him initiating dates as the measuring stick for how into you he is, why wouldn't it be the same thing the other way around? If I'm a guy and I'm ALWAYS the one initiating, especially after a number of months, I'm gonna question how into me SHE is.
I agree with Mzlady78, if you are into him why not suggest a date?
Though the man is suppose to be the suitor, I truly believe that they too sometimes like that we ladies initiate from time to time..as a sign of genuine interest.
Though we have been together for three years..I sometimes take him out. He does a lot for me and sometimes I just want to show him that i appreciate him. He does not really care for materialistic things, so I will take him on a date.
3 weeks or 3 months, unless it's his birthday why would she initiate a date? If a man is into a woman she won't even have the chance to initiate a date because he's already done it.
This doesn't mean a man has to still plan every detail of the dates, but the actual "we should see each other on Friday/Saturday/Tuesday/whenever" should still come from him.
zzirvingj;12683035[B said:]So does it changes anyone's answers if for the same scenario, the people dating haven't agreed to being exclusive yet??[/B]
I must admit, I'm not the best 'initiator' myself...partly because I am so used to guys that initiate all the time. I also agree with what MzLady said.