VelvetRain
Well-Known Member
So far this has recently come up in the gentleman I am seeing. I was raised in a Christian household all my life and attended weekly services with jehovahs witnesses. I later left the organization on my own accord in my mid twenties and tried to live the most normal life I could. As time grew on I had zero desire to be apart of any organized religion. I still believe in God but don't consider myself a religious person and that is okay. Fast forward here he is from the Methodist faith and attends services sporadically on Sunday. He just has a hard time really wanting to accept someone into his life in a longterm arrangement like a marriage if they werent exercising their faith before he met. What I clearly don't understand is why he was even talking to me from the get because I told him my past with regards to religion. His answer well I do like you. I told him my dealbreaker is that someone accept me for who I am upfront without attempting to get me to conform to their ideals. He understands that so we both decided to stay friends and not let the relationship progress further. I guess I news to start inquiring about religious beliefs with men now. It was never an issue in the past. It's certainly a non factor with me.