I have been natural for 2 1/2 years now and it took me forever to figure out a twist out. For me my hair has to be COMPLETELY dry to keep it from being frizzy - basically a hot mess. Keep trying, because there is no look that i get more complements from. Try different parts, try twist and braid outs (my fave is the twist out), try with a water bottle instead of wet hair out of the shower, try different sizes too. it does take a ton of practice but it will be worthwhile, after a while it'll just come easy for you... Trust me. When i first did my bc, and realized that being natural is more work than being permed i was ready to give up. Now, I wouldnt have my hair any other way.