@Chicoro Thank you. The colour and shine I attribute to henna and better hydration. When I had those bald spots, I was only posting in the MHM Hangout thread, created by
@faithVA. That thread is massive and I stuggle to find my own posts there so I'll share here.
I began MHM in September 2014. I jumped in full throttle and decided to commit to all the 'rules' because I wanted it to work.
I abandoned my 'regimen'. Like a complete overhaul- all my products and combs. Before I started, my regimen was shampooing, conditioning, tshirt-drying, smoothing on a shea butter/castor oil/ rosemary oil mix and braiding my hair away with extentions for 4 months. Previously, I never really paid attention to ingredients, only how my hair responded.
On Pinke's site, she wrote of using Kinky Curly Knot Today diluted with water, so that's what I used- 2-3oz in an applicator bottle diluted with water to make about 8oz... this was my rinse-out/ DC. I'd mix up some up and add a tsp or two (smh) of baking soda to the bottle and use this as a kind of co-cleanser for my scalp and hair (step 1). After rinsing, I'd apply warmed diluted KCKT, smoothing and squeezing the mix into my length (step 2). After rinsing, I apply my DIY clay mix (step 3). The mix I was using at the time had cayenne pepper, and way too much ACV but you live and you learn. Current mix varies: 3 or so scoops of calcium bentonite clay + 2 or so of rhassoul + water + SAA (It's thanks to you
@Chicoro that I even know about these
) + steeped hibiscus or a dash- less than a tsp- of ACV, sometimes I add milk. I smooth and squeeze it into my hair, starting at the roots and packing on until my hair hangs heavy. My hair was, and still is easiest to detangle with clay so this is where I focus on removing shed hairs.
I treated the clay like my proper DC and would sit for anywhere from 30mins to 2hrs before rinsing. I would then apply more diluted KCKT (step 4) braid my hair and put my bag on for a week or two or three. I sometimes would add gel (step 5). I bought and wore wigs for the first time ever. When I didn't wig it, I had my trusty headscarves. At home, I'd have my bag on. It was always on. I'd also massage and invert during this time.
As I talked to others more in the MHM thread, I experimented and added Trader Joes Tea Tree con. and also selected Faith in Nature conditioners to my rotation, but I always came back to KCKT, as this had the best slip. When wash day came around, I would do it all over again. I did this for about 5-6 months before I started wearing my hair out regularly and tweaking my regimen.