I was not in a serious relationship for almost 10 years before I met my current SO. Yes, I had a fling here or there, but nothing serious.
I am actually happy for those days now, because I got a gift that not many younger people get in life, even though I hated it at times. There were some stuff I needed to deal with and apparently I could only do it on my own.
I used to be ashamed of being single and I felt like leftovers sometimes...it was humbling! Like a true Capricorn, my hardest years were the first part of my life. After 30, my life just got better and better
When I finally decided it was time, it didn't take long before he was in my life
It's very difficult to go from being a single person to being part of a couple, checking in the ego at the door towards that new part of your life. But it's worth it! When it's good, it's good