C@ssandr@
formerly known as "keyawarren"
Someone asked me my opinion on the importance of friendship in a relationship. I could not come up with a short answer for this......
My best friend comes to mind on this one. We are not intimate
, however we are very close and have 17 years behind us. I do not think any monogamous relationship can withstand the amount of space, respect, freedom, and understanding that our friendship has required.
For example, when I was living with my ex (at the tender age of 24) I decided that I wanted my own apartment. I didn't want to break up, I simply wanted to experience having my own space. I can admit that this would seem like a step backwards. For him it incited the fear of me leaving altogether. In a monogamous relationship one cannot do what they want to do. Unlike a friendship, you can't not call for days and not at least explain yourself to your partner.
So in short. The dynamic of a monogamous relationship is far different from a "friendship" (aside from sexual relations
)
What say you? How does one maintain the "friendship" aspect with the common relationship regulations?
My best friend comes to mind on this one. We are not intimate
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For example, when I was living with my ex (at the tender age of 24) I decided that I wanted my own apartment. I didn't want to break up, I simply wanted to experience having my own space. I can admit that this would seem like a step backwards. For him it incited the fear of me leaving altogether. In a monogamous relationship one cannot do what they want to do. Unlike a friendship, you can't not call for days and not at least explain yourself to your partner.
So in short. The dynamic of a monogamous relationship is far different from a "friendship" (aside from sexual relations
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What say you? How does one maintain the "friendship" aspect with the common relationship regulations?
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