How Do You the Female Handle Temptation?

[janiebaby]

Just wondering

I keep thinking about Chris Rock's line when he said that a person can deal with not chasin it but when it comes runnin after you you can't run that fast.

It's one thing turning down bums but it's another thing turning down winners....

Uh what do you do?

 

[JFemme]

*Uhm, I really should get a cup of tea for this...*

 

[BeautifulFlower]

I dont think I understand the question. Where was this said?

 

[♥Lamaravilla♥]

The only time this should even be a problem for a woman is if she is tied down to a bum. If you already have a winner who cares if another winner comes along?

 

[Kerryann]

i will go with the winner running to meet him right now where is he

 

[JustKiya]

Anybody can 'look' like a winner at first glance. It's 3 months down the road (once the representative goes away) that you find all the **** that your new 'winner' really has going on. And any man who persists after a woman tells him she is in a relationship is. a. bum.

Now, if you are tied down with a bum now - you need to ditch him first, and check yourself as to why you got with him in the first place - otherwise every winner you 'see' might be a bum in a Armani suit.

 

[moonglowdiva]

I've never had the privilege to cross paths with a winner.

 

[Bunny77]

i will go with the winner running to meet him right now where is he

I like you.

 

[Seeking8Rights]

Well, I'm taken (married) so it wouldn't be that hard to decide....

I see it like this -- there are plenty of winners in the world and I'm glad I got me one, so if I do come across someone that seems like a winner, I will try to hook them up with one of my ELIGIBLE friends. Hell, if the dude is open to age, I'll try and hook him up with my momma.

Either way, I gots mine!

 

[strenght81]

If I have a good man already, my only temptation would have to be lusting over another man, who is pleasing to look at; Which is NOT worth losing my good man (that's hard to find ) over!

 

[MrsAriannaAmbers]

If you meeting winners like this...lawd...ya'll help me on this one...

 

[Sosoothing]

I assume you are in a relationship? Do you and your partner talk about your daily lives? I say tell your man about your temptation. Don't necessarily tell him you are being tempted though...lol. It might deter you from acting on your feelings if your partner is aware that the object of your temptation exists...I dunno.