I totally get what you are saying - I know forgiveness is a requirement. But I'm still a little confused on how that works.
Yes, we go to God and ask for forgiveness for what we did wrong. Then we have to think about if there is anyone we need to forgive. Ok...got it.
So, then again, I say - well, what then if that person hasn't admitted any wrongdoing or asked us to forgive them. We say to God - I forgive that person - whether or not they asked for it.
On the 1 hand - if that person has asked God for forgiveness for what they did to us (to God or anyone), then us telling God that we forgive them, makes it all clear. God acted as a mediator. (?)
On the other thand - that person has not asked God for forgiveness for what they did to us. We tell God we forgive them anyway. So, does God then just save up that "forgiveness" in his file for when that person does eventually ask for forgiveness?
OR
Is it that yes, it's wrong to harbor resentment, anger, a grudge - so WE have a sin. We must confess that sin of anger and ask for forgiveness. We've done something wrong. So then why would we then go to God and say "God, please forgive THAT person for what they did to me."
And then who's to say someone needs forgiving? Maybe we thought that person did something wrong but in reality, they did not. I know there are easy situations like someone hurts your family. But what about situations/misunderstandings between friends or family?
I'm just trying to get to the bottom of this!