CaraWalker
Well-Known Member
i in no way want my ex back, but i think i still hate him.
for unrelated reasons i discovered there is an "other" inbox on facebook. i checked it and saw i had a message from his new girlfriend, dated from over the summer when we had an unfortunate run in with each other. long story.
i hadnt thought about this loser or his loser girlfriend in months, but now its bothering me again. i dont want to hate him or want him to be miserable; i dont want to have any thoughts or feelings about him at all, even bad ones. i just want to be indifferent. but if ever i have cause to think about him again, i get stuck in a cycle of dwelling on how much i hate him and how he doesn't deserve to be happy. there is no reason i should care. he is a loser, and i am truly glad i stopped seeing him, and shes unemployed and unattractive.
it also bothers me that im still single and they are still dating. we had a bad breakup and he jumped into that relationship like a month or two later. i accept that i have a slow recovery period after break ups but now i'm ready to date and even though im beginning to meet men again it's still going slowly. and i cant stop feeling like i need to "win" (and i cant while im still single).
what do you do to make yourself forget an ex, even if you dont want him anymore? its super petty and it really bothers me.
for unrelated reasons i discovered there is an "other" inbox on facebook. i checked it and saw i had a message from his new girlfriend, dated from over the summer when we had an unfortunate run in with each other. long story.
i hadnt thought about this loser or his loser girlfriend in months, but now its bothering me again. i dont want to hate him or want him to be miserable; i dont want to have any thoughts or feelings about him at all, even bad ones. i just want to be indifferent. but if ever i have cause to think about him again, i get stuck in a cycle of dwelling on how much i hate him and how he doesn't deserve to be happy. there is no reason i should care. he is a loser, and i am truly glad i stopped seeing him, and shes unemployed and unattractive.
it also bothers me that im still single and they are still dating. we had a bad breakup and he jumped into that relationship like a month or two later. i accept that i have a slow recovery period after break ups but now i'm ready to date and even though im beginning to meet men again it's still going slowly. and i cant stop feeling like i need to "win" (and i cant while im still single).
what do you do to make yourself forget an ex, even if you dont want him anymore? its super petty and it really bothers me.