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A True Soldier Never Dies
Or can you never tell?
One a popular hair blog, there was a question about why non-blacks tend to give more compliments to our natural hair then black persons and whether our apprehensive about natural hair in the workplace/society is all in our insecure heads. But there was a question whether some of these compliments were genuine or just examples of curiosity. Some comments read:
"Personally, I take complements with a grain of salt. I received a complement from a white coworker once and then a week later when I changed my style, the same coworker admitted that they did not really like the previous style but they loooovvvve the new one! This lets me know that most comments/complements are not genuine."
or
"I also think it’s easier for whites and other races to superficially compliment from “a far” when in reality, most would not find “black hair” acceptable for themselves if it is not part of a Halloween costume."
This is not just a question of when non-blacks compliment, but compliments IN GENERAL. How do you tell if they are superficial or not? Or can you never tell?
One a popular hair blog, there was a question about why non-blacks tend to give more compliments to our natural hair then black persons and whether our apprehensive about natural hair in the workplace/society is all in our insecure heads. But there was a question whether some of these compliments were genuine or just examples of curiosity. Some comments read:
"Personally, I take complements with a grain of salt. I received a complement from a white coworker once and then a week later when I changed my style, the same coworker admitted that they did not really like the previous style but they loooovvvve the new one! This lets me know that most comments/complements are not genuine."
or
"I also think it’s easier for whites and other races to superficially compliment from “a far” when in reality, most would not find “black hair” acceptable for themselves if it is not part of a Halloween costume."
This is not just a question of when non-blacks compliment, but compliments IN GENERAL. How do you tell if they are superficial or not? Or can you never tell?