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FlowerHair said:Wow, this must have been the longest post in my life LOL
Please forgive me.
dtachi said:I gave up trying to figure this one out. Once I think I know, I learn some new piece of information that refutes what I previously thought. The only thing I know for sure is that I fit into the 3 category.![]()
FlowerHair said:I am a 3
I agree with the hair being able to take on many different looks - as a child when my mother never used conditioner on my hair it looked more 4a-ish. In my siggy pic it looks more like a 2 something. With no products it's just a regular 3b/c.
I have learned over the years how to make my hair look like anything from stick straight to 4a/b fro-ish. Then I decided what I want my hair to look like and what type of regimen I want (the simplest possible) and took it from there.
My daily hair do is a ponytail or a single braid or twist. It's kinda boring, but I can't wear my hair down every day because of the wear and tear on my ends.
I tried co-washing, but it didn't work for me - it dried my hair out a lot. Also, my hair stays wet for a whole day (sometimes even longer) and I can't walk around with wet hair 24 hours LOL. Especially living as close to the North Pole as I doCan anyone say frozen curls.
My regimen looks something like this:
I wash once or twice a week. Shampoo once and condition afterwards. While I have conditioner in my hair I finger comb and pull out loose hairs. Then I rinse sloppily to keep some conditioner in the hair. I follow with leave in conditioner and jojoba oil or olive oil. Then I just let it air dry hanging loose while I wear a towel around my shoulders.
At night I usually make a loose braid or a loose bun (I just fold my hair over and fasten with a hair comb). It's difficult to find a comfortable way to sleep, but now I've gotten used to throwing the braid the other way when I turn over in my bed, so I don't have to have it in my face etc.
In the morning I put some leave in conditioner on the ends of my hair and sometimes moisturize with water from my hands. I just wet my hands and then squeeze my hair (the ends) a little to make the curls come back to life.
There are several types of 3:s. My best friend and I have the same hair type, but our hairs are very different and react differently to hair products![]()
Her hair is very soft and the individual strands are very thin, but she has plenty of them - in fact I would say she has around two-three times as many hair strands as I have. When she makes 2 braids they are super thick!
My hair is coarser to the touch (compared to hers) and the individual strands are very thick, like Asian hair. And when I make 2 braids they are skinnyBut because of my thick strands my hair looks just as thick as hers when I wear it down.
Her hair reacts better to moisture - she can wet it and that just makes it shinier and springier when it dries. If I wet my hair without products it just gets frizzy. In fact, she doesn't need leave in conditioners or hair oil, her hair is oilier than mine to begin with. I think it's the soft, thin hairs that make the sebum travel down her hair shafts better.
Her daughter has a mix of 3 and 4. It is exactly like our hair, but just one grade curlier. She is 3 years old and her hair is already down to her little buttSo cute! Her hair strands are soft and silky and very thin like her mother's. She also has a ton of hair like her mom. Her hair was curly at birth.
Her son has pure 3 hair that is very sparse. Cut short it lays down and looks straight. When it grows it's huge loose curls/waves. His hair strands are coarser like mine. He is 6 years old and I don't think his hair will grow in thicker. His hair was very sparse and straight at birth.
I wanted to add that my hair has been all kinds of lengths over the years, but mostly long. When my hair is really short (around 2 inches) it's completely straight and sticks up and out like a MonChiChi. Weird! Maybe because it's so wiry. When it grows longer than that it starts to curl. The longer it grows the more it curls. But it's been the same amount of curl since shoulder length I think.
I was born with straight hair that was long enough for the nurses to put a bow in it. It was down to my neck.
Sar-I said:I thought I understood the whole hair type thing, but what confuses me is the different textures involved. It seems that the letter (a,b,c,) denotes the texture or the feel or “silky touch†of the hair for lack of better terms, but I learned that it only describes how tight the curl is. What confuses me is that you can have hair that is exactly the same degree of curliness, but looks and feels totally different. Would that describe how coarse the hair is? If so, what do you call the opposite of coarse? I thought it was fine, but then I see some type 4’s refer to their hair as fine, so if it is fine with no curl pattern, isn’t that type 1erplexed ?
the entire hair typing thing
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Cichelle said:Sometimes I really don't know what my hair type is....3A, 3B, 3C...I don't know. My hair used to be very curly when it was shorter. Now it seems more wavy with some curl on the ends. I'm wondering what it is going to look like as it gets longer than this. Is the curl going to entirely disappear?
I used to relax 4 times a year, from root to tip and then wear it curly.erplexed Go figure.
Great thread.
Ayeshia said:Im in! I find that with my hair, a relaxer never really took. It still looked just like my natural hair if I didnt get a flat iron put to it. There was never a happy medium. Either under processed or over processed![]()
FlowerHair said:I am a 3
Her daughter has a mix of 3 and 4. It is exactly like our hair, but just one grade curlier. She is 3 years old and her hair is already down to her little buttSo cute! Her hair strands are soft and silky and very thin like her mother's. She also has a ton of hair like her mom. Her hair was curly at birth.
I have natural pics up in my fotki, Bubnbrnsuga has thick ringlets too.currygyal said:I am going natural now. I don't really remember my natural hair as much so I just go by mother for my hair type. According to hair, I have ringlets...so 3c-ish? Not sure not sure but Lucia, you may be a hair twin. I need one so we can compare regimes...
Sar-I said:Do you all use protein? DC’s, moisturizers, etc. Which ones?
camellia said:I use protein about once every 6 to 8 weeks. No heavy protein treatments. My hair doesn't like that. I use Enphuse or Keraphix mixed with honey and oil just like I do with my moisturizing deep conditioners. I leave it on for an hour and I does the job.
I deep condition after every shampoo. My two favorites are Humectin and Hemp Hydrate. I add a little honey and a bit of oil and warm them up in the microwave first for 20 seconds.
Water is my main moisturizer. When it's humid out I use honey water (a teaspoon of raw honey in 2 cups of spring water), it makes my curls pop and helps draw more moisture into my hair.
I adore natural butters and oils both for sealing with and mixing into deep conditioners.
Sar-I said:Do you all use protein? DC’s, moisturizers, etc. Which ones?
MissMadaam said:I use protien either Apohgee treatment for damaged hair or Dudley's DRC...Ill soon be trying Mega Tek when the store gets it in this comming friday.......I DC with Miss Key SUPER 10 en 1 ,Lamaur Bone Marrow,And Nacidit Avocado cream conditioner.....I use Nacidit Avocado rinse but looking for a replacement......ORS(with out mineral oil) for moisture when hair is straight...S-Curl Moisturizer for wash n go's and braid outs....Red Palm oil for Oil treatments ..Jamaican Black Castor oil to seal..Lacio for leave-in....Smooth n Shine Polisher
Sar-I said:I had my eye on the Aphogee, but that's considered a hard protein, right?
la flaca said:Man, I want a daughter![]()
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Same here! This is one of the reasons I transitioned. I figured what's the pointAyeshia said:Im in! I find that with my hair, a relaxer never really took. It still looked just like my natural hair if I didnt get a flat iron put to it. There was never a happy medium. Either under processed or over processed![]()
You're welcome girl. Good luck with your wng!PatTodd said:I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I haven't relaxed my hair for a year, and I am trying to decide whether to, so I might be transitioning. My hair is so wavy, it makes me crazy. Like Sar-1, even when it's relaxed I still need heat for it to be straight, so why bother?
I have never worn it down or out in its natural state and I am like, afraid to. I am quite conservative by nature and I want my hair to be straight, smooth and contained. Which would be fine except that ain't the kind of hair I have! I might be trying my first wash n' go with Beyond the Zone Noodle Head this weekend (thanks, Pokahontas!)
I do the honey rinses too and they work great. They do make the curls pop and also cuts down on frizz a lot.camellia said:I use protein about once every 6 to 8 weeks. No heavy protein treatments. My hair doesn't like that. I use Enphuse or Keraphix mixed with honey and oil just like I do with my moisturizing deep conditioners. I leave it on for an hour and I does the job.
I deep condition after every shampoo. My two favorites are Humectin and Hemp Hydrate. I add a little honey and a bit of oil and warm them up in the microwave first for 20 seconds.
Water is my main moisturizer. When it's humid out I use honey water (a teaspoon of raw honey in 2 cups of spring water), it makes my curls pop and helps draw more moisture into my hair.
I adore natural butters and oils both for sealing with and mixing into deep conditioners.