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[highlight][size=+2]Find Mr Right by 30 then give up and settle for Mr Good Enough, hit author urges women[/size][/highlight]
By KATE LOVEYS
Last updated at 3:37 PM on 24th January 2010
[highlight]Single women who continue their search for Mr Right after the age of 30 are consigning themselves to a lonely future,[/highlight] claims author Lori Gottlieb.
Now her book Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr Good Enough, is to published in the UK this week, and it is already sparking heated debate.
[highlight]Single mother[/highlight] Gottlieb, 40, admits she wishes she had 'settled' for any of the 'perfectly acceptable but uninspiring' men she rejected during her search for the perfect man.
[highlight]The author believes the notion of The One is nothing but a myth. Single women in their 40s who maintain they are happy are fooling themselves, she claims.[/highlight]
Gottlieb claims that we have idealised marriage, and that settling for Mr Second Best could make women happier in the long run.
[highlight]'Marriage isn't a passion-fest; it's a partnership[/highlight] formed to run a very small, mundane and often boring non-profit business. And I mean this in a good way.'
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ugh-hit-author-Lori-Gottlieb-urges-women.html
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must admit, i totally agree with her on "the one" being a myth. well, not a myth, but a fantasy shoved down our throats at an early age. i believe there are several people on this earth that could be "the one"
i also feel her on the "marriage is a business" statement. i think if more people went into it with their heads and not just their hearts, we'd have more successful marriages
however, i also have to wonder if she is jaded, being a single mom. if she were childless, would she still feel the same? and so passionately?
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