almond_eyes My sistah, cheers to that indeed! Thanks this has been a JOURNEY! My last relaxer was May 2010 so it has taken me all of 4 1/2 years to figure out what my hair needs. I've always had fragile strands and super fragile ends so protein has worked wonders!
My regimen is mild protein twice a month, heavy protein followed by a moisturizing treatment once a month and just a moisturizing treatment alone once a month. I do a variation of that every month depending on what my hair wants.
I have abandoned doing natural 'out' styles like puffs, braidouts and twistouts because my ends do not like that. They want to be as stretched as possible so if it ain't a bun folks usually don't see my waves. I have been straightening a lot because I find that it keeps my ends in tip top shape where they cannot wrap around each other.
For straightening I use a heat protectant (tressemme), a serum (Chi silk infusion or keracare silken seal serum) and the keracare blowdry spray. All things I used while relaxed (minus the tressemme because I didn't believe in heat protectant.)
I blowdry with a comb attachment then flat iron one pass in VERY. SMALL. SECTIONS.
Hope that covered it
@ThatJersyGirl WHATTTTTT?! Please go I love Paynesville but I'm from Flumpa (country girl). You should go I bet you won't want to come back.