pink gator
Well-Known Member
Have any of you dated a man who doesn't speak your language?
Was it successful? How did you handle it?
Here's my story; sorry that it's kinda long:
On my way back from France a couple weeks ago, I met this FOINE brother at Charles De Gaulle airport.
I saw him scoping me when I was checking into my flight but didn't think much about it.
A few minutes later, he approached me in a gift shop.
He asked if I spoke French...I replied yes, but not fluently.
I asked if he spoke English...nope. France, born and raised.
So he introduced himself, 6-3, 28, semi-pro soccer player, lingerie designer (wow), with athletic/model looks--think Terrell Owens (I know him personally and can attest to his fine-ness), but with a cuter mug, and has a 5-year-old daughter. Capricorn...and wanted to holla; he didn't believe or care that I was 41.
Wanted to get to know me better, even though I was heading back to ATL and he was flying to London for business. We talked some more until we had to board our flights and exchanged contact info.
I'm thinking he would be totally perfect if he only spoke more English and if I had kept up with my French hadn't been used in nearly 20 years.
He texts every morning and tells me in French that he enjoyed meeting me...can't wait to see me again...I am beautiful...how is my day going...how he can't get me out of his mind...blah-blah. I reply back but I get frustrated because I REALLY wanna get to know him better and that means that he needs to learn more English!
I recently started my French refresher lessons--not only for him, but for a couple business ventures--and am doing my part.
He will be here at the end of the month to visit for a few days and I'm wringing my hands because we might have a hard time communicating--and I'm a talker!
What should I do? Should I tell him to take English lessons (even his cousin told him that he should have BEEN taking them, as it's a good thing to know in this global/cultural market) or am I being selfish?
Was it successful? How did you handle it?
Here's my story; sorry that it's kinda long:
On my way back from France a couple weeks ago, I met this FOINE brother at Charles De Gaulle airport.
I saw him scoping me when I was checking into my flight but didn't think much about it.
A few minutes later, he approached me in a gift shop.
He asked if I spoke French...I replied yes, but not fluently.
I asked if he spoke English...nope. France, born and raised.
So he introduced himself, 6-3, 28, semi-pro soccer player, lingerie designer (wow), with athletic/model looks--think Terrell Owens (I know him personally and can attest to his fine-ness), but with a cuter mug, and has a 5-year-old daughter. Capricorn...and wanted to holla; he didn't believe or care that I was 41.
Wanted to get to know me better, even though I was heading back to ATL and he was flying to London for business. We talked some more until we had to board our flights and exchanged contact info.
I'm thinking he would be totally perfect if he only spoke more English and if I had kept up with my French hadn't been used in nearly 20 years.
He texts every morning and tells me in French that he enjoyed meeting me...can't wait to see me again...I am beautiful...how is my day going...how he can't get me out of his mind...blah-blah. I reply back but I get frustrated because I REALLY wanna get to know him better and that means that he needs to learn more English!
I recently started my French refresher lessons--not only for him, but for a couple business ventures--and am doing my part.
He will be here at the end of the month to visit for a few days and I'm wringing my hands because we might have a hard time communicating--and I'm a talker!
What should I do? Should I tell him to take English lessons (even his cousin told him that he should have BEEN taking them, as it's a good thing to know in this global/cultural market) or am I being selfish?
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