This just happened to me. We got along amazingly, but sadly I had to come back to N.Y after Christmas break (he lives in Florida)...he said long distance was hard. And we maintained a friendship after the fact. During my time back, she came asking for another chance. He decided to give it one more go...but asked if we could stay friends since we did get along well and the like. She told him not to talk to me at all and he just cut me off, just like that. No explainations, just "Sorry, I can't talk to you anymore." (I'm not one to be a stumbling block or have my name raised up when things go wrong, so I just left)
He just spoke to me yesterday, two weeks later, that he's "getting what he deserved" for how he treated me because as soon as they got back together, she started showing her tail again...ex's are usually ex's for a reason, but at least no one could blame me for it. I told him he did what he felt was best for his relationship. He's hurting right now. But what can you do?
it usually isn't a good idea. Their heart is usually still not on the mend.
~*Janelle~*