He doesn't want to tell ladies in his past.

[ChasingBliss]

Wow, I knew a guy who never told me he was married and he was trying to talk to me. His cousin finally told me before anything happened and said he does that ALL THE TIME. He doesnt tell ANY WOMAN that he's married. Luckily I knew the family members and somebody cared enough to say, "nah I dont want you all caught up in that web, you need to know."

I hate men like this. I would never want to marry a man who couldnt tell other women or anybody that he was married. Right now my SO goes around telling EVERYBODY I'm his wife/fiance...he interchanges the too. He's very proud of this.

 

[silenttullip]

Thank u ladies... He called me... Asking if I knew why she had been upset. I told him & he was like "I wear my ring... The tv happened so long ago I can't rmemeber..." Idk if he's lying but he also made a good point... Dude NEVER goes anywhere but work... So maybe he really is dumb to where he doesn't realize its an issue or doing someone at the job. My response was "u gotta value ur marriage more than this. She needs 2 wear her ring if she isn't (I took that to be the point he was tryna make) & u need to let ya lady friends know whats up". He said okay and told me 2 call her. I'm taking ya'll advice & staying out of it until she's ready to talk but now I kinda feel bad for even telling him. Oh well

 

[hopeful]

Oh well, don't feel bad for telling him. But stay out of it now. He is a liar. Men love love love to play dumb. They are too old and grown to be involving you in their marriage.

 

[MzLady78]

Thank u ladies... He called me... Asking if I knew why she had been upset. I told him & he was like "I wear my ring... The tv happened so long ago I can't rmemeber..." Idk if he's lying but he also made a good point... Dude NEVER goes anywhere but work... So maybe he really is dumb to where he doesn't realize its an issue or doing someone at the job. My response was "u gotta value ur marriage more than this. She needs 2 wear her ring if she isn't (I took that to be the point he was tryna make) & u need to let ya lady friends know whats up". He said okay and told me 2 call her. I'm taking ya'll advice & staying out of it until she's ready to talk but now I kinda feel bad for even telling him. Oh well

Yep, doesn't matter. Dude could be getting his freak on in the janitor's closet.

And why does he want you to call her? They are entirely too old for this nonsense. It doesn't take a genius to know that not telling your women friends you're married is an issue. He can't possibly be that stupid.

 

[lana]

My best friend's husband doesn't have my number...and if he called (after getting my number from their wife's cell phone) ....I would have handed my phone to my husband.....but that's just me.

 

[silenttullip]

I feel u but she isn't my best friend... He and I use to be good friends... He's a former coach of mine and then I meet her and we just (had so much in common) but now that all of this has happened oh well.

My best friend's husband doesn't have my number...and if he called (after getting my number from their wife's cell phone) ....I would have handed my phone to my husband.....but that's just me.

 

[NOEChic]

My best friend's husband doesn't have my number...and if he called (after getting my number from their wife's cell phone) ....I would have handed my phone to my husband.....but that's just me.

my best friend's husband has my phone number and when I am with my friend and I say something about her husband or to ask him something she would tell me to text/call