Having the big O!!

How many have not have the big O!!

  • yes

    Votes: 59 59.6%

  • no

    Votes: 40 40.4%
  • Total voters
    99
I've had the c. kind, but i desperatly want to experience the v. kind !!!! :grin:
I feel like i'm missing out big time, and i'm frustrated about it!
I need tips, suggestion, something darnit !!! :drunk:
 
_lovelyness said:
I've had the c. kind, but i desperatly want to experience the v. kind !!!! :grin:
I feel like i'm missing out big time, and i'm frustrated about it!
I need tips, suggestion, something darnit !!! :drunk:
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Hey at least you've had one of them!
I just experienced the v one when I turned 25 a few yrs back. Unfortunately I've only had that one twice, though.:ohwell: I get the c ones all the time. I heard Sue on her talk show say that only about 75% of women actually receive the v one. It was some stat like that. Weird, huh?
 
I am one of those people that dont know if I have or havent, like i have experienced a "feeling" but it wasnt anything earth shattering...so maybe I still havent. I dont know, maybe I am crazy, can you not know if you have had one?
 
Cxshortie said:
I am one of those people that dont know if I have or havent, like i have experienced a "feeling" but it wasnt anything earth shattering...so maybe I still havent. I dont know, maybe I am crazy, can you not know if you have had one?
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This happens to be me as well. I'm not sure.

But I have had the "I'm not sure if I'm gonna pee myself if I let go" feeling :perplexed
 
I was really surprised while at work me and a few coworkers had a conversation about this very thread. I asked a question, "if you could have one O thru regular intercourse or 10 thru oral which would you choose" and all of them said whats the diff. Believe me there is a diff and I would choose the one big O over the oral 10 anytime.:grin:
 
nubianqueen2006 said:
I was really surprised while at work me and a few coworkers had a conversation about this very thread. I asked a question, "if you could have one O thru regular intercourse or 10 thru oral which would you choose" and all of them said whats the diff. Believe me there is a diff and I would choose the one big O over the oral 10 anytime.:grin:
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Is it like THAT?! Cause the orals ones can put me to sleep....My goodness! Until I have one though I'm still going to keep thinking of them as a unicorn, something I'll NEVER see :wallbash:
 
The BIG V O is faaaabulous and you WILL know it when u get it. For the women who said "what's the diff?" when surveyed, they couldn't have experienced the V. It's unmistakable and so sublime. Next time you feel you are going to peepee; KEEP GOING...do not stop. Trust me.
 
CantBeCopied said:
The BIG V O is faaaabulous and you WILL know it when u get it. For the women who said "what's the diff?" when surveyed, they couldn't have experienced the V. It's unmistakable and so sublime. Next time you feel you are going to peepee; KEEP GOING...do not stop. Trust me.
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girl, you need to stop putting ideas in people's heads unless you're going to tell us exactly how to get there, lol.
 
It also helps the thoughts you have going on in your mind at the time. Tell yourself that you can "O", that you're going to "O" and then other little nasty thoughts help me... I tell my self "This is that good ___" :look: And if he's doing something you like tell him not to stop don't move, keep it just like that, then when that pee pee feeling starts coming, just keep going, and instead of pee pee you will "O" .... :grin:
 
I had my first V O from P not that long ago, and ooooooooweeeeee, I mean talk about being in tears! I am SO serious!!

But I'm able to C O with relative ease. Sometimes when I'm at work and feeling, umm - frustrated, I'll put on my tennis shoes and speed walk around the building, I know how to build up just enough momentum to O. I discovered this while jogging one day. :sekret:
 
SummerRain said:
I had my first V O from P not that long ago, and ooooooooweeeeee, I mean talk about being in tears! I am SO serious!!

But I'm able to C O with relative ease. Sometimes when I'm at work and feeling, umm - frustrated, I'll put on my tennis shoes and speed walk around the building, I know how to build up just enough momentum to O. I discovered this while jogging one day. :sekret:
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this whole post had me dying!:lachen: Dang how stressing is your job, lol
 
caligirl said:
girl, you need to stop putting ideas in people's heads unless you're going to tell us exactly how to get there, lol.
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You know !! :lachen: someone needs to pm me step by step instructions for real, cuz my bf is obviously clueless and so am I !!!!
 
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Caramela said:
It also helps the thoughts you have going on in your mind at the time. Tell yourself that you can "O", that you're going to "O" and then other little nasty thoughts help me... I tell my self "This is that good ___" :look: And if he's doing something you like tell him not to stop don't move, keep it just like that, then when that pee pee feeling starts coming, just keep going, and instead of pee pee you will "O" .... :grin:
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^^^^everything she said! The biggest sexual organ in women is our BRAIN. Do what you need to do to get there and stay there mentally....including dirty talk and going AGAINST your own inclination to be modest...and going AGAINST your inhibitions....if you feel like you wanna draw closed, do the opposite and open up.....if you want to stop the intensity by slowing down because it's unfamiliar, KEEP GOING ANYWAY.

Communicate with your SO. *I better stop now....*
 
CantBeCopied said:
^^^^everything she said! The biggest sexual organ in women is our BRAIN. Do what you need to do to get there and stay there mentally....including dirty talk and going AGAINST your own inclination to be modest...and going AGAINST your inhibitions....if you feel like you wanna draw closed, do the opposite and open up.....if you want to stop the intensity by slowing down because it's unfamiliar, KEEP GOING ANYWAY.

Communicate with your SO. *I better stop now....*
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I agree with everything CantBeCopied said and Caramela. Basically you have to completely psyche yourself out, you have to make yourself comfortable with your body, meaning you have to be willing to moan audibly, and touch yourself in front of your partner, or whatever gets you excited. If you are the least bit inhibited you will not reach your goal. Don't be afraid to pretend like you are reaching that point even if you are not because play will turn into reality. Tell your partner you just want to enjoy yourself and that you'll be expressing it, none of that, "Are you there, are you there?" tell them to "SHUT UP".

Also when you first V O it may not feel all that intense but it will build up in intensity over time. If do not feel like you have to urinate that the right spot is not being hit. This spot has to be massaged and awakened so don't be discouraged if it takes several sessions to bring it to life and respond to the movements.

With all this being said I think it is really important that women spend time with themselves to achieve a C O
by themselves first. You have to know your own likes and dislikes.
 
SummerRain said:
I had my first V O from P not that long ago, and ooooooooweeeeee, I mean talk about being in tears! I am SO serious!!

But I'm able to C O with relative ease. Sometimes when I'm at work and feeling, umm - frustrated, I'll put on my tennis shoes and speed walk around the building, I know how to build up just enough momentum to O. I discovered this while jogging one day. :sekret:
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Wait, what?? Wow, please explain how this is possible. PM a sistah if necessary. Awe damn, I thought I was in the know, I need to step my game up, lol:lachen:
 
CantBeCopied said:
The BIG V O is faaaabulous and you WILL know it when u get it. For the women who said "what's the diff?" when surveyed, they couldn't have experienced the V. It's unmistakable and so sublime. Next time you feel you are going to peepee; KEEP GOING...do not stop. Trust me.
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Hmmm...I thought I've experienced the V kind. I usually go to sleep after it so I assumed that I've gotten one. Hmmm...
 
nubianqueen2006 said:
I was really surprised while at work me and a few coworkers had a conversation about this very thread. I asked a question, "if you could have one O thru regular intercourse or 10 thru oral which would you choose" and all of them said whats the diff. Believe me there is a diff and I would choose the one big O over the oral 10 anytime.:grin:
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I have experienced EARTH SHATTERING C.O.s and V.O.s, but once I had a V.O. that made me drool :look:.
 
CantBeCopied said:
The BIG V O is faaaabulous and you WILL know it when u get it. For the women who said "what's the diff?" when surveyed, they couldn't have experienced the V. It's unmistakable and so sublime. Next time you feel you are going to peepee; KEEP GOING...do not stop. Trust me.
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If he hits that G spot and strokes it right... your flow will release and *she'll* grip and quiver on her own.

Oooh the best feeling around... and if you gush, you won't even care.
 
Until today, I thought I was having O's. Maybe Im tricking myself out? Someone PM me with suggestions :ohwell:. What can I do to have em? What can my SO do for me to have them? Im too old not to be having em.
 
I get the CO with ease all the time, mostly with myself :look: (hey, i'm single what can i say?). Ive had the VO but not nearly as often. It really is fabulous but very hard for me to achieve. Has to be the right angle and i definitely have to be mentally in the zone.
 
Wow. When I look at the results of the poll, 59% of women YES to 40% of women NO, I can't help but feel that women don't need to spend more energy in becoming sexual experts and learning all sorts of sexual tricks to please men. Men ALWAYS get their big O.

Women need to learn more about what pleases them, what's good for them, and if they're not getting it from their lover, they need to teach him, and if he doesn't want to learn, find one that does. Sometimes, it takes a special guy with whom you can be comfortable enough to let yourself go.
 
If air hits me the wrong way... :ohwell::blush: I can only think of 2 occasions where I didn't have an O from P. I'm thankful for my umm composition :grin:
 
:yep::yep::yep::yep: to your whole post

:amen: to the bolded, especially!
Jessy55 said:
Wow. When I look at the results of the poll, 59% of women YES to 40% of women NO, I can't help but feel that women don't need to spend more energy in becoming sexual experts and learning all sorts of sexual tricks to please men. Men ALWAYS get their big O.

Women need to learn more about what pleases them, what's good for them, and if they're not getting it from their lover, they need to teach him, and if he doesn't want to learn, find one that does. Sometimes, it takes a special guy with whom you can be comfortable enough to let yourself go.
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LoverofLife said:
:yep::yep::yep::yep: to your whole post

:amen: to the bolded, especially!
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I agree too!

Also, I think you really have to know your own body, in the biblical sense, in order to even be comfortable to allow yourself to have the big O with another person. (aaargghh..just got image of Oprah in my head)

With that being said, I've never had a VO, and only a couple of wack CO's.
 
Duchesse said:
I agree too!

Also, I think you really have to know your own body, in the biblical sense, in order to even be comfortable to allow yourself to have the big O with another person. (aaargghh..just got image of Oprah in my head)

With that being said, I've never had a VO, and only a couple of wack CO's.
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Probably should invest in some additional assistance-a good toy will fix that problem. Noone should live their life without an O.
 
What I had to learn was where I needed to be (physically). I RARELY do a v.O on the bottom but if I am on top I will scream until the cows come home. The night ain't over unless I get to ride the cowboy.:yep:


so ladies....try a new position and see what that does for you.:drunk:
 
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