I have dated a couple of functional illiterates but not lately. I dated this particlar guy when I was in my 20's. I thought he was good looking. All the rest of the above he lacked. His sister told me that his mother had a very long bob. She said I had to grow my hair to get his attention. I thought that was absurd. He did not have a lot going on but I hace change my stance on the long hair portion. I am growing it for myself though.
No but I dated a man who wasn't handsome . Intelligence is a non negotiable requirement.
No but I dated a man who wasn't handsome . Intelligence is a non negotiable requirement.
Not smart in my case was: limited reading comprehension and I don't recall him EVER having a bright idea that would actually work in terms of execution. It was like dating the typical comedy dumb guy. Like Joey from friends. Lol. And he was 8 years older.
I was young (under 22). I ended it. Lol. I just couldn't stand it. It started to bore me. I saw the finish line and knew it was going to get worse as I got older. I also kept being asked by his friends and family what was I doing with him. Lol Although I wasn't attracted, he in his limited capacity would've gone to the ends of earth for me, support and provide for me, but I couldn't stay.
I won't do it again. Haven't done it again.
In fact, I'm convinced that people who are not very smart/intelligent are generally happier in life. They worry a lot about things and are more content.
So I would definitely date a man who was.
If a guy had all the characteristics that the OP states then I would give it a go. As long as the guy wasn't borderline basic intelligent then ok. He doesn't have to be Einstein.
In fact smart guys or guys who think they are smart/smarter than you can be manipulative and try to out think you or over think things. There can be too many mental games and they try to get in your head which can in certain cases lead to mental/emotional abuse.
In fact, I'm convinced that people who are not very smart/intelligent are generally happier in life. They worry a lot about things and are more content.
So I would definitely date a man who was.
of course they are. stupid people are much happier than intelligent people.
Did that inspire your username?
Yes we are. Praise the Lord.
I spent a lot of time being miserable & depressed.
i didnt mean that either stupid people nor happy people choose to be miserable or depressed. its just a lot easier to be happy when youre so stupid you dont notice (or understand) whats going on around you.