tHeHaIRLaB
I cut 3 times because I relaxed and regretted it.
Mainly because I had a lot of pressure from family and I also had a lot of pressure from my stylist, who eventually conned me into texturizing, then into relaxing. I have spent the majority of my life as a natural, and relaxers are just
not for me. (Though I did give relaxing a good 5 or 6 year solid run before the first BC)
(this is not supposed to be an anti relaxer rant, i am just answering a
question about myself so please no attacks from relaxer lovers)
In my experience, It costs more, it takes more time out of my schedule, and the health of my hair is compromised. I can get my hair EXACTLY as straight as with a relaxer with just a blow dryer/ roller set or a flat iron. Plus I am really into natural living and am paranoid about all the toxins in everything we put on and in our body so why bother with all that chemical mess when it doesn't even make me happy?
I know other women have the exact opposite story i that i do, but my own unaltered hair is easiest for me to work with.
And when my pushy family gets on my case, or when i am in the mood for a switch up, I just flat iron/ blow out/ or roller set and it stays pin straight for at least a week, unless i wash it.