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HATERS on the Job make me wanna %##% Long Rant

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LuvLiLocks

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I am so pissed right now I could just beat the #### outta someone. Ok you'll check this out. I just bought a new Beverly Johnson wig to help me with my April fools stretch. EVERYONE has given me a ton of compliments on my new do. We have a small office and we're cool, so I walk into work on Monday, and all the cheif architects and administration is complimenting me. Plus my the whole production team, except for this one chick who doesn't say anything at all at first. Now there are only 3 females in production, so we all kinda hang, plus I'm the only black person in the company. The guys are all raving about how I look so fabulous with long hair and that I should keep it that way. So I been getting these compliments all week long.
Now the problem started when someone noticed she hadn't commented and asked her what she thought. This ***** was like well yeah I could cut my hair and give her to make a "human hair wig", but I'd probably give it to some kid with cancer first because I wouldn't want to give it to someone who has to buy hair because their real hair CAN'T grow" I was like WTF!! I couldn't believe she said that. I told her that I didn't want her hair because my real is the bomb, plus I wear a wig not because I have to, but because that is my choice. So I went on to remind her how FABULOUS I was it the xmas party and how my hair was banging and everyone said so. Then I shut up cause my boss was in the office and I know that I was about to knock her out. I am sorry this is so long you'll but I had to share this experience.
I think it is all because she colored her hair and not a soul said anything about it. But that's cause it looks like crap and she is so ***** that no matter what she does no one notices. I am the only one who says nice things to her to try and help her boast her self-esteem, but I notice that whenever someone pays me a compliment she backlashes. I'm so pissed because we were supposed to be "friends". But she just bite me in the a** one too many times and no I'm just gonna quit talking to her outside of business....
 
Some women just have issues, and she may not know why. I have a friend and a cousin who are very similar to what you say about your friend. I still love them I just know that they have some jelousy issues.
 
LuvLiLocks, don't worry about it. I don't know why some people are like that. They HATE to see other folks get compliments! I just found out that one of my co-workers is like that. I invited people from my office over to my house and several people said how well-decorated it was. She had the nerve to make a snide comment...but she doesn't even have a house...she lives rent-free with her aunt and she's been trying to buy a house since I've known her.
 
well you have a lot of jealous and haters in the world today..especially women...they cant stand to see another woman get complimented...girl i would just shake it off and dont sweat it...you know it must look good if you have been getting tons of compliments on it...and it takes just one negative remark from this one person...out of how many maybe at least 15 to 20 you know it has to be jealousy...and obviously she thought long and hard about it...
 
I'm a little bit more calm now. I ain't gonna sweat it either, I'll just toss my fake hair occassionally and watch her turn red, or green rather. :ohwell:
Thanks for listening ladies.
 
But she just bite me in the a** one too many times and no I'm just gonna quit talking to her outside of business....

I hate this happened to you.... at least know you know and accept the relationship for what it is. Friendship is a two way street. I think people who lash out like that have issues with themselves. If it wasn't your hair, it would have been something else. If you're happy and pleasing to God... nothing else really matters. He will continue to poor out blessings!

Now let the chuch (I did mean chuch) say 'Amen'!
 
I cant believe she said that. You must really look beautiful today. You should have told her, "I never knew you were as ugly on the inside as you are on the outside." If the topic comes up you should offer to take her to where you got your wig so that she can cover up that awful color in her hair.

Continue to shake it off and rock your style. Be thankful that she finally showed herself.
 
Hmmpphhh!!! I can't stand ppl like that! U know that hate was boiling in her blood for a minute while she was sitting there RESENTING the fact that you were getting shine... It's good u put her in her place...
 
I'm also wigging it up & despite having bra strap length hair there were a lot of folks hating at my job. I mean some folks are just jealous because of all of your fabulousness girl. Just shake those haters off & keep doing your thing.
 
IMHO, She's not a good friend.....:nono: putting you on the spot in front of people with a comment like that. It's because of her own insecurities. I surely would pull her aside and straighten out this mess!
 
I'm sorry this happened to you. It sucks when another "friend" stabs you in the back. She's prob jealous of you. Do yo' thing, girl. Do yourself a favor and limit your association with her. If she makes you that mad, you're better off without her. You might forget yourself and knock her out!:lol:
 
I now realize that she is definitely jealous and insecure. I'm gonna take you ladies advice and limit my association. She asked me to lunch today and I declined. What a nerve :crazy: It just bugs me that I try to be supportive and she just tries to tear me down. Well at least I know. :ohwell:
 
OMG I had the same problem at my old job! Women are really dangerous when it comes to putting down people. Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words hurt just as bad. I don't think people know thaat they hurt people when they say those things.

I got a new job where no one EVER talks about my hair. Thank you thank you thank you!!
 
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