Just sad! It would never occur to me to say something rude to especially a friend, but even someone who I didn't know that well and they were happy and excited that they were about to meet a hair goal - I'd say nothing but positive things. What's wrong with some people! Heck, even if the person's ends really are a little raggedy, on this board we know how to cure that with the Scurl and the baggie technique, plus, from the Cathy Howse site I know enough that it doesn't matter so much about the ends - hair is growing from your scalp - so you can grow waist length hair with raggedy ends and rejoice in reaching your waist length goal, and then trim your ends when you get to your goal! She's obviously just a jealous, ridiculous hater and you don't need her!! I'm sorry to say this, but sometimes this is why it's sometimes so much easier for attractive girls to just become friends with other attractive girls, because then everyone's used to a certian amount of attention and you don't have some crazy hater to deal with! Well, sometimes there can still be hating, but why does it seem to come from the most awful-headed people!