Nevaeh1282
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Have any of you ladies ever found yourself in such a situation? How did you decide whether to take him back or not?
Case in point... myself and and and ex broke up a few years ago mainly because of the distance, but we always hooked back up whenever I was home on holiday. To cut a long story short, we had a massive falling out because he had always said that when I move back home for good he'd like us to try again, then when it was close to the time for me to move back home I heard he'd been checking somebody else. Yes, it was selfish of me to be angry considering we weren't a couple.... but that's not really important at the mo'.
Anyhoo, we've recently gotten back on speaking terms after hardly being civil to each other for months... and he has told me how much he misses me and that he'd like for us to try again.
My thing is this: we've shared so much and I know I'll always have a soft spot for him.. probably the only man I've ever loved BUT he's an ex for a reason right? Should I even venture back onto that territory?
Right now I'm holding out... but is that the right decision? *sigh* why can't life be simple...
Case in point... myself and and and ex broke up a few years ago mainly because of the distance, but we always hooked back up whenever I was home on holiday. To cut a long story short, we had a massive falling out because he had always said that when I move back home for good he'd like us to try again, then when it was close to the time for me to move back home I heard he'd been checking somebody else. Yes, it was selfish of me to be angry considering we weren't a couple.... but that's not really important at the mo'.
Anyhoo, we've recently gotten back on speaking terms after hardly being civil to each other for months... and he has told me how much he misses me and that he'd like for us to try again.
My thing is this: we've shared so much and I know I'll always have a soft spot for him.. probably the only man I've ever loved BUT he's an ex for a reason right? Should I even venture back onto that territory?
Right now I'm holding out... but is that the right decision? *sigh* why can't life be simple...