try the bed head manipulator, i heard it works wonders especially for hiding those new growth nip naps on the edges. and whatever you do, DONT get that thick nasty black or brown gel. that crap will eat your hair up. try spraying a lil leave in (just a little) and then a little mango butter, wrap it up with a scarf to help lay your edges/hair down ( if thats what you're trying to do).