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About 7 years ago a guy called me out of the clear blue sky claiming he had found my phone number in his car. His name didn't ring a bell, but we met up face-to-face. Over the years he would call or when I would see him on the street we would talk. I never took it further than that because I was suspect that he was claiming he found my phone number in his car. Fast forward to last year I saw him in the grocery store we spoke and he mentioned after all those years he realized where my phone number had came from. We exchange phone numbers again, planned to go out together but nothing transpired.
About a month ago after not seeing him since last year he showed up on my doorstep just to say hi. During that time he expressed to me that he was saved and how blessed his life had been since he had become saved. I also found out he was a member of my mother & stepfather's church and they know him. In fact, when speaking to my mother I found out that one Sunday while he was leading the morning prayer my mother said to herself, "I wish my daughter could meet a nice young man like him". Little did she know is that I knew him already and that 4 days later he would show up on my doorstep. Before he left we exchanged phone numbers again and he told me if I ever wanted to talk about the word to give him a call.
Strangely about a week and a half later I driving out of a Dunkin Donuts parking lot when my cell phone rang and it was him. I stopped my car to talk to him on my cell phone in the parking lot of car wash only to find out that he was at that car wash getting his car cleaned. He came over to talk to me and invited me to follow him to go to his house. Him and I talked about the bible and he filled me in on things I did not know. I'm not saved, but prior to meeting him I have been considering becoming saved because I know it will change my life.
So over the last couple of weeks him and I have been talking on the phone and seeing each other. He has been asking me questions like would I have a problem dating a younger guy(he's 28, I'm 34), would I be able to have a relationship w/o sex, do I plan to get married and what do I believe the Lord has planned for me. Unfortunately 2 times he and I have crossed boundaries and we are not happy about it.
Last night he called me and through conversation we spoke about the last incident. He told me he has a friend he can talk about with these things and they gave him some great insight. I told him I hope everything works out with the advice his friend gave him and he said yes, I(him) need to get married. Since the beginning he has made the statement he has made a general statement not directed to me that he would like to get married or he needs to get married. This confused me only because I have heard this many times from him and it leaves me with the impression that he has already selected someone, but it's all a matter of "working" to that point. One of my friends is under the impression he is speaking to me in subliminal messages me on the other hand thinks he is not.
There is a part of me that is saying speak up girl ask questions, another part of me is saying run for the hills and never look back, but there is a part of me that is saying this could be the potential mate God has sent to answer your prayers. He is a wonderful person and everything I could ever want in a mate. He is warm, loving, soft-spoken, educated, hard-working, ambitious, God-fearing and dedicated to his faith. Is this too good to be true??
About a month ago after not seeing him since last year he showed up on my doorstep just to say hi. During that time he expressed to me that he was saved and how blessed his life had been since he had become saved. I also found out he was a member of my mother & stepfather's church and they know him. In fact, when speaking to my mother I found out that one Sunday while he was leading the morning prayer my mother said to herself, "I wish my daughter could meet a nice young man like him". Little did she know is that I knew him already and that 4 days later he would show up on my doorstep. Before he left we exchanged phone numbers again and he told me if I ever wanted to talk about the word to give him a call.
Strangely about a week and a half later I driving out of a Dunkin Donuts parking lot when my cell phone rang and it was him. I stopped my car to talk to him on my cell phone in the parking lot of car wash only to find out that he was at that car wash getting his car cleaned. He came over to talk to me and invited me to follow him to go to his house. Him and I talked about the bible and he filled me in on things I did not know. I'm not saved, but prior to meeting him I have been considering becoming saved because I know it will change my life.
So over the last couple of weeks him and I have been talking on the phone and seeing each other. He has been asking me questions like would I have a problem dating a younger guy(he's 28, I'm 34), would I be able to have a relationship w/o sex, do I plan to get married and what do I believe the Lord has planned for me. Unfortunately 2 times he and I have crossed boundaries and we are not happy about it.
Last night he called me and through conversation we spoke about the last incident. He told me he has a friend he can talk about with these things and they gave him some great insight. I told him I hope everything works out with the advice his friend gave him and he said yes, I(him) need to get married. Since the beginning he has made the statement he has made a general statement not directed to me that he would like to get married or he needs to get married. This confused me only because I have heard this many times from him and it leaves me with the impression that he has already selected someone, but it's all a matter of "working" to that point. One of my friends is under the impression he is speaking to me in subliminal messages me on the other hand thinks he is not.
There is a part of me that is saying speak up girl ask questions, another part of me is saying run for the hills and never look back, but there is a part of me that is saying this could be the potential mate God has sent to answer your prayers. He is a wonderful person and everything I could ever want in a mate. He is warm, loving, soft-spoken, educated, hard-working, ambitious, God-fearing and dedicated to his faith. Is this too good to be true??
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