notsomebody
Active Member
I don't know if anyone else has this problem. I have a huge fear of wearing my hair down now. I first started putting my hair in bun a few years ago, when it dawned on me that my shirts were probably a major cause of breakage once my hair hit shoulder length. Also, giving up the curling iron completely sealed the deal as far as keeping the bun.
Well, I have done wrap sets and loved the look, but for some reason I only want me to see it. Like I will walk around my house when its just me and my man, but If I am going outside into the climate, my hair is up and protected.
Well, I am getting married next October and plan to wear my hair down then (Hopefully I will have gotten 6 more inches of Healthy hair by then) but, in the meantime I want to start looking dressier. The problem is that this has become a full fledged phobia. Every time I take may hair down, I become obsessed by the idea that my hair is weaving its way into the cloth of my shirt. Or, the absolute worse thing about wearing it down, some person who I know through work or something will put their hands in it to see if its real, or to see if its soft or whatever. Because it takes people off guard to see me with my hair down. I look like a completely different person. So, I guess they just assume that it isn't my hair and they want to touch it to be sure.
I guess I am hoping that there are people out there who feel me on this and can give me some advice on getting over this fear. I mean what is the point of having long hair if I never wear it out?
IF you have this phobia, what do you do make yourself go on the edge a little? I mean I use the protective styling for attaining length, but it can't possibly be good for my hair to be up all the time.
Does this make any since?
Well, I have done wrap sets and loved the look, but for some reason I only want me to see it. Like I will walk around my house when its just me and my man, but If I am going outside into the climate, my hair is up and protected.
Well, I am getting married next October and plan to wear my hair down then (Hopefully I will have gotten 6 more inches of Healthy hair by then) but, in the meantime I want to start looking dressier. The problem is that this has become a full fledged phobia. Every time I take may hair down, I become obsessed by the idea that my hair is weaving its way into the cloth of my shirt. Or, the absolute worse thing about wearing it down, some person who I know through work or something will put their hands in it to see if its real, or to see if its soft or whatever. Because it takes people off guard to see me with my hair down. I look like a completely different person. So, I guess they just assume that it isn't my hair and they want to touch it to be sure.
I guess I am hoping that there are people out there who feel me on this and can give me some advice on getting over this fear. I mean what is the point of having long hair if I never wear it out?
IF you have this phobia, what do you do make yourself go on the edge a little? I mean I use the protective styling for attaining length, but it can't possibly be good for my hair to be up all the time.
Does this make any since?