A friend of mine cannot get over a guy...and I'm running out of advice...what do you think? Here is the story:
In 2001 my friend met this guy in college. They were never a couple and they were just kicking it. I believe the guy just got out of a long term relationship and just wanted to start dating again.
After a few of dinners and "hang outs", my girl asked him "what his intentions were?"...he just said that they were "cool" and that's it. Basically, he thought she was a good and very cool girl to just chill with...which I question this because he acted a little bit more friendly (if you know what I mean). So, my friend decided to keep her distance from him so, she wouldn't catch feelings. Unfortunately, it was too late.
Then, she found out that he had a girlfriend. But he still wanted to chill with her just to kick it.
After few rounds of cutting him off, she finally stopped talking to him because she felt so confused but she still had feelings for him.
Now, she found out that the guy is engaged and doesn't know what to do with herself. I've been giving her the usual advice of "he is not for you, you'll meet the one, etc....). I even told her to date and she has but for some reason, she cannot get him out of her system completely.
Now it has been 4 years that she has dated someone because she has really hard time meeting quality men and she feels down and like she messed up or could have done something to keep him, etc...
I don't know what else to tell her...any advice??
In 2001 my friend met this guy in college. They were never a couple and they were just kicking it. I believe the guy just got out of a long term relationship and just wanted to start dating again.
After a few of dinners and "hang outs", my girl asked him "what his intentions were?"...he just said that they were "cool" and that's it. Basically, he thought she was a good and very cool girl to just chill with...which I question this because he acted a little bit more friendly (if you know what I mean). So, my friend decided to keep her distance from him so, she wouldn't catch feelings. Unfortunately, it was too late.
Then, she found out that he had a girlfriend. But he still wanted to chill with her just to kick it.
After few rounds of cutting him off, she finally stopped talking to him because she felt so confused but she still had feelings for him.
Now, she found out that the guy is engaged and doesn't know what to do with herself. I've been giving her the usual advice of "he is not for you, you'll meet the one, etc....). I even told her to date and she has but for some reason, she cannot get him out of her system completely.
Now it has been 4 years that she has dated someone because she has really hard time meeting quality men and she feels down and like she messed up or could have done something to keep him, etc...
I don't know what else to tell her...any advice??