twinkletoes17
Active Member
Men are stupid 
But anyway...
My ex and I haven't been together nor seen each other since mid-June of 2008. He's been distraught, I haven't. I can honestly say that I was good to him, gave him everything he wanted, and was hardly ever insecure, even when I should have been. He was very abusive to me, was a flirt, yet he's the one that broke up with me. I was down for a bit but picked myself up soon after and have been a much stronger person ever since. I can't say the same for him however. He's very feeble! He cried so much to me over the phone and was always begging me back. I always told him no. He hurt me in the past so many times, and I had been drifting from him for such a long time that it was preposterous to even consider going back to him. Well, one night, he calls me crying and inebriated saying that he's going to slit his wrists (his feebleness again). He gave me 2 choices. Don't call anyone and listen to him actually do it, or call someone and he would've done it by the time I called him back. I know my ex. He's idiotic, but this was over the edge. I don't have time for that Smokey Bear-like advice, "Calm your friend down, talk to him, try and change his mind." How am I supposed to do that over the phone? I'm only a voice. So I called 911. He snapped out of it, all scared and everything. Cops found him within 20-30 minutes. They spoke to him, then they sent him to a ward, but they found he didn't do anything so they sent him home. I've promised I won't tell anyone in his family or anything because he said it was when he was at his weakest. This was sometime in August by the way.
Today I get an upset text from him, the first one saying to stop worrying for him, the second one saying this (I edited/spell checked it 'cause lawd knows his grammar can use a boost): "I know you don't love me because if you did you would never have thought of calling the police on me. Not even a friend would have. I'll let you be because you killed the love I had for you. I don't see you in that way, or as a friend."
Last time I checked, friends help friends. He's very lucky I even bothered to pick up the phone that night. They took him to the ward and actually medicated him. He was scared because he didn't know what they gave him, but he was normal while under the influence of the medications. Once they wore off he went back to crazy. He's 28, turning 29 next month. He behaves like he's 5 though :S
The whole thing has left me thinking, "He can't be serious?" Anything can happen when someone's drunk. And he called me stupid for getting him help? Maybe I'm missing something...
But anyway...My ex and I haven't been together nor seen each other since mid-June of 2008. He's been distraught, I haven't. I can honestly say that I was good to him, gave him everything he wanted, and was hardly ever insecure, even when I should have been. He was very abusive to me, was a flirt, yet he's the one that broke up with me. I was down for a bit but picked myself up soon after and have been a much stronger person ever since. I can't say the same for him however. He's very feeble! He cried so much to me over the phone and was always begging me back. I always told him no. He hurt me in the past so many times, and I had been drifting from him for such a long time that it was preposterous to even consider going back to him. Well, one night, he calls me crying and inebriated saying that he's going to slit his wrists (his feebleness again). He gave me 2 choices. Don't call anyone and listen to him actually do it, or call someone and he would've done it by the time I called him back. I know my ex. He's idiotic, but this was over the edge. I don't have time for that Smokey Bear-like advice, "Calm your friend down, talk to him, try and change his mind." How am I supposed to do that over the phone? I'm only a voice. So I called 911. He snapped out of it, all scared and everything. Cops found him within 20-30 minutes. They spoke to him, then they sent him to a ward, but they found he didn't do anything so they sent him home. I've promised I won't tell anyone in his family or anything because he said it was when he was at his weakest. This was sometime in August by the way.
Today I get an upset text from him, the first one saying to stop worrying for him, the second one saying this (I edited/spell checked it 'cause lawd knows his grammar can use a boost): "I know you don't love me because if you did you would never have thought of calling the police on me. Not even a friend would have. I'll let you be because you killed the love I had for you. I don't see you in that way, or as a friend."
Last time I checked, friends help friends. He's very lucky I even bothered to pick up the phone that night. They took him to the ward and actually medicated him. He was scared because he didn't know what they gave him, but he was normal while under the influence of the medications. Once they wore off he went back to crazy. He's 28, turning 29 next month. He behaves like he's 5 though :S
The whole thing has left me thinking, "He can't be serious?" Anything can happen when someone's drunk. And he called me stupid for getting him help? Maybe I'm missing something...
