Free Download Steve Harvey's Act like a lady..
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*~*Afrolicious*~*
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Oh sweet! Thanks!!!!
AnjelLuvs
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I am going try again I got an error the first time... 
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Everything Zen
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I was interested in reading this at first but then I got to thinking that I'm tired of people preaching to the women about relationships and you don't hear not nare a word being said to the men.
Dare~to~Dream
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I used WinZip to open the open/extract the files. No problems at all! Thanks!
ClassicChic
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Good point!
MissMeWithThatIsh
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I feel you but... Men aren't going to talk shows, or getting together expressing deep concerns about wanting to be taken seriously or be married at 24 with 3 kids and an MBA by 32. Women consciously, and subconsciously, tend to look for every man they are interested in as a potential husband. They don't enjoy life "as is," and then they are very vocal about their needs for a relationship... a particular one.
This "need" is a high selling commodity. There are many books that address men, but men are generally less vocal.
~~HoneyComb~~
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I understand your position EZ.
But this book is not a relationship book per say. Steve mentions in his shows that he's not a relationship expert, but he knows about men.
This book is giving women a "heads-up" on how a man thinks. Many women are clueless to this, and through his experience he's had women ask him about men, so he decided to write a book about it.
There's a lot of information that makes sense, and although it may not be what women want to hear, it's the true about what makes a man tick, therefore helping women not to get "suckered" in by them.
Makenzie
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I hear you. But I know that I've always considered myself a smart girl when it came to men. But I got played in my last relationship and I can't blame anyone but myself.... see what had happened was, I was in love.
. Anyway, he did what I allowed him to do. Because of that I enjoy reading information like what Steve is putting out. I am all about arming myself from this ever happening to me again.Plus, I see women doing whatever they can to get a man and allowing that man to do whatever he wants to them. Can someone please tell these women that fawning over these men while you show how far you can drop it, booty clap it, shake it, pop it ain't gone make him want you for more than sex? Nor dating some married man because it’s HIS vows being broken not yours is ok. Or financing a man, playing house with him is not going to make you happy because a loser is a loser is a loser. His true colors show eventually.
Yes, men need to be talked to, and real quick. But that doesn't take away the fact that A LOT of women act wrong. Plain and simple!!!!!!!!!!! I think these reality shows got a lot of people hyped up to show how they the best thing and have no problem competing for some dudes attention. Plus seeing all these women chase after a dude, who then has his pick of them is really clouding women's minds. Music video's too. All about women chasing men, doing whatever new dance is out for the men in some skimpy outfit.
Men need to work on a lot, but so do women.[/FONT]
mrsjohnson75
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Murjani
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I would never buy this book, but a free download - that'll work! Thx
Exactly!! That's why I thought it would be of good use to those who didn't want to buy it, but those who wouldn't mind reading it.
I downloaded it for all my single friends, because they don't seem to hear me.
kayte
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don't bother
your instincts are good at least.... don't bother buying
on the Tyra show (i know.. i know consider the source )
he was sleeazy and cheesy and disrespectful to women on the show..
and egotistical.....
but lets get to the highpoints... he touched in his cough-cough book
all he did ....was recap and restate in Steve Harvey-ese
what 1 million other women's books and mens's book are ALREADY saying ..
example
his so-called 90 day rule..when you can suss out
whether or not a man is intimtate relations worthy
Hands up! if you remember seeing that particualr 90 DAY RULE
on early episodes of GIRLFRIENDS.
it wasn't even a book...
gimme a break
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~~HoneyComb~~
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don't bother
your instincts are good at least.... don't bother buying
on the Tyra show (i know.. iknow consider the sorce ) he was sleeazy and cheesy and disrespectful and egotistical.....
but lets get to the highpoint he touched in his cough-cough book
all he did ....was recap and restate in Steve Harvey-ese
what 1 million other women's book are ALREADY saying ..
example
his so-called 90 day rule..when you can suss out
whether or not a man is intimtate relations worthy
Hands up! if you remember seeing that 90 DAY RULE on early episodes of GIRLFRIENDS.
it wasn't even a book...
gimme a break
I remember the bolded, that was Joan's rule
~~HoneyComb~~
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As far as the book goes, not every woman is as well-informed about men like the women we see here on LHCF.
I believe it will be beneficial to young women (perhaps so older) who haven't had a father or father-figure in her life, who know absolutely nothing about how men "roll" and for those who've had mothers that have let themselves be used by men just for the sake of having a man.
I believe it will be beneficial to young women (perhaps so older) who haven't had a father or father-figure in her life, who know absolutely nothing about how men "roll" and for those who've had mothers that have let themselves be used by men just for the sake of having a man.
MizzBrown
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I agree. The book sales have soared and just cause you think its been re-hashed over and over, some female out there is reading this info for the FIRST time and it will be like an epiphany for her.
And many of us arent well-informed on here either if you read the relationship forum so that holds no water.
So i'm for it 100% because its helping SOMEONE. Not all ladies are members of LHCF and many have gotten rotten advice from their girlfriends-mothers-aunts.
As for the men, visit your local Barnes & Nobles and Borders bookstores...their self-help books are sitting on the shelf. Target audience is women and supply and demand.
Krymsonkween
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My anti virus taged it as corrupt............
kayte
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this part is true ..some women can and do benefit from a male figure who can
speak positively on expectation and realities in man/woman relations
but Steve Harvey,while a pop figure,does not inherently qualify as an authority
on relationship and role modeling for young women..just cas he's a guy!
the proof of that is in how you conduct yourself ..with women
with the population you are speaking to
if you saw the Tyra show he was oogling some of the audience who asked questions,
contemptuous of the two of the female guests on the show and plain egostical..like he had ALL the answers except for his personal story
nothing original ..but '''heavily borrowed" shall we say
Steve Harvey compassionate guru for ladies? smh
he's a poor example for young girls and older women
but hey..if you can read the book ..for free..
And that....would be...me
I l.o.v.e.d He's just not that into you.. also the Mars/Venus book was interesting
Book sales soaring is not always an indication of good material..lol
but if someone is getting help from them ..fine ..
I take the most issue that this man is disrespectful with the very audience
he purports to be "helping".....shrug ..I personally find it distateful and hyprocritical~
but Mr Harvey does not care about my opinion!..nor that I do not intend to purchase his soaring-sales-book..lol
he's laffin all way to the Hollywood Bank
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MizzBrown
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Is anyone going to pass this download around to their MALE friends?
It would be interesting to know just how many men, particularly BLACK men who read self-help books and articles.
A male friend of mine said he read the book along with some other friends and they actually had a little roundtable discussion about it. Started off joking at the book but they got serious and had a real debate about it.
Sometimes they agree with the topics and sometimes they dont and when they tell you why its really interesting.
It would be interesting to know just how many men, particularly BLACK men who read self-help books and articles.
A male friend of mine said he read the book along with some other friends and they actually had a little roundtable discussion about it. Started off joking at the book but they got serious and had a real debate about it.
Sometimes they agree with the topics and sometimes they dont and when they tell you why its really interesting.
glamazon386
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I remember the bolded, that was Joan's rule
That she never followed and things ended up screwed up anyway.
OP thanks for posting it. I was interested in reading the book but didn't want to purchase it. And it was already checked out at my local library.
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