Flirting at church?
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Choclatcotton
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Be friendly, smile, say hello
HoneyA
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Had a discussion about this with a male Christian friend of mine and he said that guys in the church make judgements about women very quickly and if you don't look approachable, they will not approach. He said a lot of other stuff as well but yeah in a nutshell be friendly and look friendly too.
Another thing is just because you meet a guy in the church, doesn't at all mean you'll be "equally yoked" but I get what you mean generally.
Another thing is just because you meet a guy in the church, doesn't at all mean you'll be "equally yoked" but I get what you mean generally.
MissMeWithThatIsh
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Why worry about how the other women in the church will view you?
So long as the men aren't married or obviously interested or involved, and you're not dressed or looking "like a hussy" you should be fine.
So long as the men aren't married or obviously interested or involved, and you're not dressed or looking "like a hussy" you should be fine.
Taleah2009
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I met my current SO at church. LAST PLACE I THOUGHT I WOULD MEET A MAN. My church is small and I have been attending for 15 years. I just happened to come to bible study one Tuesday and he saw me (he was visiting) and started to inquire about me. A mutual friend told me of his interest, and the rest is history. And now it is a year later. Granted, the road was not easily paved. We have been through our share of ups and downs.
Soo I say just be yourself, smile, say hello. And just continue to put those good vibes out there and the man will pick up on it. And dont be worried about what other people think. In the end, they wont make you happy.
Soo I say just be yourself, smile, say hello. And just continue to put those good vibes out there and the man will pick up on it. And dont be worried about what other people think. In the end, they wont make you happy.
kbragg
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I flirt in church all the time
Hold hands, sneak kisses, suggestive "Brushing" when coming in and out of the aisles, sometimes I'll lay on his shoulder, and if I'm feeling really frisky I might sneak a booty squeeze or cop a feel
No shame in my game
My kids think I'm gross
Hold hands, sneak kisses, suggestive "Brushing" when coming in and out of the aisles, sometimes I'll lay on his shoulder, and if I'm feeling really frisky I might sneak a booty squeeze or cop a feel No shame in my game My kids think I'm gross
Glib Gurl
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I flirt in church all the time
Well, that's different . . . he's yo huzzbin . . .
glam-
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Well, that's different . . . he's yo huzzbin . . .
I'm saying, KBragg is gonna get you disfellowshipped, Glib
Mimi22
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I flirt in church all the time
LOL I need to get hitched!
panamoni
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I say just be yourself -- no need to flirt. You can become friends with guys there, and maybe things could progress (or they might have friends you'd be compatible with if you're cool with them, get invited to things where you meet their extended circle, etc.).
If you're involved in the church, you'll meet guys who are also involved, and become friends that way. I wouldn't try to force it in church, because if it's my "home" church, it's a place where I'd plan on being for a long time, so there's no need to rush things.
If you're involved in the church, you'll meet guys who are also involved, and become friends that way. I wouldn't try to force it in church, because if it's my "home" church, it's a place where I'd plan on being for a long time, so there's no need to rush things.
MoniintheMiddle
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I met my DH in church...in bible study to be exact. Like others have said, just be yourself.
*SkolarStar*
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This is the 3rd time I heard someone meeting their DH or SO at bible study. Something must be going on in bible study that I didnt get the memo about
. The other person is a woman I met at church. I was going through a really rough break-up and she said "don't worry, I didn't get married until 28 and I met him in bible study. Just giv it time." 
Def agree with the bolded. I realized that rushing things only ruins everything. Slow and steady gets the ring, opps I mean, wins the race.
prettybyrd
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I met my SO in church. 
He was the drummer, banging away on the drum when I walked in. Our eyes locked and he stared at me through the service. Afterwards the older ladies of the church found out that I was single and kept pushing for the two of us to sit near each other, for me to give him a plate of food. Four years later here we are! 
You may want to enlist the help of some elder women. They LOVE a wedding and happily ever after!
He was the drummer, banging away on the drum when I walked in. Our eyes locked and he stared at me through the service. Afterwards the older ladies of the church found out that I was single and kept pushing for the two of us to sit near each other, for me to give him a plate of food. Four years later here we are! You may want to enlist the help of some elder women. They LOVE a wedding and happily ever after!
Glib Gurl
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I don't know, y'all . . I've been myself for about 31 years and that hasnt' gotten me squat
Probably because my "self" is a really reserved, book wormish type . . . especially at church. My brother was making fun of me the other day about this . . . we were getting ready to go to a party and I was all set to pull my hair back into my usual bun and he was like, "Glib, you look like a librarian! 'Excuse me, do you know where I can find War & Peace?'" He had his girlfriend hook up my locks with the flat iron and my hair was 
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