First Date: Pick up or Meet up?

First Date: Pick up or Meet up?

  • Pick up

    Votes: 2 2.0%

  • Meet up

    Votes: 98 96.1%

  • Doesn't matter

    Votes: 2 2.0%
  • Total voters
    102
  • Poll closed .
i agree with the general consensus of meet up if it's a stranger. if it is someone who i have known for a while or something, then pick up is fine.
 
Meet up but I would ask the make/model of the vehicle they drove so I could let my mama know. I would also let my mama and at least 1 friend know where we were meeting.
 
It depends. If I knew you from before and we have mutual friends, pick up. If I just met you then we meet up.
 
Years ago my friend set me up with one of husbands good friends. I'd never met him before but 100% trust my friend and her husband. He picked me up at my home.

My ex fiance picked me up on our first date. I had met him at an event so yes, he was a stranger but for some reason I allowed him to pick me up. I remember there being alot of faffing about and it was getting late so I told him to pick me up. Turned out he had a table booked and bought theatre tickets and wanted the night to be perfect which included him treating me like a lady and picking me up.

I'm still alive!!!

But generally, def meet up.
 
I met my current bf online and on our first date we meet at a place I was very familiar with and knew people who worked there. At the end of the night, he offered to drive me home and I accepted. Before I got into his car, I took a picture of his license plate and told him I was sending it to my best friend and mother. I also informed him that they knew what he looked like as well.
 
I would definitely say meet up. The FIRST and ONLY time I had a guy pick me up for a first date it didn't end well.
 
I've been picked up, but at a location across the street from my building. There is a cafe near by that works for that purpose. When that happened, it was a guy I met at a party so we had some rapport - not a complete stranger. If we never met (ie. set up or online date) I would meet him there.
 
Meet up with strangers, especially the punnani hounds from social dating websites.
If it's someone from work, school or I just already know him them he comes and gets me.
 
If I "met" him online or if I don't know him that well, then first date would be a "meet up" for me. :look: Idk who he could be... He could be a Craigslist stalker for all I know...:look: :sekret:

But if he's someone that I know pretty well, or I've interacted with in person on multiple occassions before, then a pick up date wouldn't be bad imo.
 
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