Je Ne Sais Quoi
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my doctor did too as well as some other procedure. I declined both. My mother told me I should have told him "kiss my black a$$" because he obviously didn't care about me as a patient. A black patient. He also said that hysterectomies do not cause early menopause when i brought up one of my concernsThanks is not enough. When I was younger, I was diagnosed with fibroids and I had intense pain with week long cycles. Because of this my doctor proposed a hysterectomy. Fast forward to four months ago, I had an ultrasound, told the tech my story, she said," They recommended what?! There is nothing wrong with your uterus and your fibroid is the size of a DIME in a place that would NOT keep you from being able to conceive. I'm so glad you went with your gut instinct and refused that surgery because there's no way you'd need something that drastic."
Doctors are 80 some-odd percent (Forgive me as it's late and I don't remember the exact number) MORE likely to recommend hysterectomies to African American women. There are so many women (my older sister included) that were "sold" (aka told that they NEEDED) hysterectomies when in fact they didn't. We may not have all of the answers but we ARE in control of what we put on and into our bodies.
I personally am open to any and all information. What I can't use, I stick it in my mental filing cabinet so that I may use it later or share it with someone that could benefit from it. Whether they're caused by relaxers, hormones/toxins in food, various plastics, bad diets, etc., I want to know. So, Thank you OP. I appreciate the post.(This was my first time reading it.)
(This was my first time reading it.)

. Anyway, after all the results of tests were in, she explained what the fibroids were up to and she said this: "Let's remove the fibroids that are there. I will remove everyone I see. If I go in and see that your uterus isn't good, and will cause a serious health risk for you, I will remove it. But, if your uterus is healthy, except the fibroids, I will leave it in. Deal?" I liked her approach so I said "Deal!" She performed the surgery and afterwards she told me "there is absolutely nothing wrong with your uterus. It's healthy and strong its just that you are growing these fibroids. She removed all that she saw, however she did inform me that its a possibility that they would return if they are in the lining of my uterus.