Wow...um I'll just say that I wasn't trying to attack you nor was I making any efforts to defend a relaxer. I didn't see anyone else doing that either, but I realize our perceptions color our realities. I think us being "divided" by this conversation may be a bit of an exaggeration considering it's just a couple pages long (a few depending on your settings) and from my observation, nobody's up in arms. You asked for our thoughts, so we came in and gave them.
Just because we don't agree with what he said doesn't mean we're attacking you or him; it simply means we don't agree...and that's ok.
I see that you've been here just over a year. I'm not sure if you remember the BIG thing about relaxers and natural hair that happened a while back, but periodically, the relaxed versus natural thing comes up here, and most times, it's a big deal. Relaxers have been cited as the cause of every disease and ailment under the sun, and I doubt many LHCF members don't know that. As thorough and well-read as these women are, most of them know EXACTLY what's in their relaxers, and they've assessed the possibilities and made informed decisions.
I don't think this is limited to relaxers...if you had come and said the same thing about flat irons, I think you would have gotten a similar response. The ladies here are opinionated, and there's nothing wrong with that.
I applaud you for sharing the information with us. I think most of us appreciate new information whether we believe/agree with it or not.