LightEyedMami
New Member
So i went to my Husband's Fathers House for a BBQ yesterday; and i was so annoyed by him i try to ignore him but it is getting almost impossible to now. So im a Natural (4b) and my daughter is 3 yrs old (natural as well and is about a 3C-4A) So his family ALL relax their hair, and everytime they see me, they tell me how i should relax my hair and how i would look like a "pretty pueto rican" if i would just relax it . So anyways i MYSELF have got used to the comments but then i got mad when my FIL came out of the blue and said my daughter hair was "nappy" (now i know to US naturals, Nappy isn't bad to us, but the way he said it was as if to say her hair is NOT PRESENTABLE!!) then he goes on to say "It really shows your a good parent when you put care into your child's apperance" as if keeping my childs hair in its natural state is Neglectful, my daughter ALWAYS looks cute when we go out AND her hair is always done before she goes to events, but to hear him talk you would think i let her look any kind of way!!...i refuse to go over his house again anytime soon, i wanted to tell him off SO BAD!! .........Next time anyone from Hubbys family tells me about me or my daughters hair needing to be fixed they're getting a ear full.